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thread starter Crusadedd Aug 02 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Hmm. Might not be the first, but I'll start one nevertheless. This is a thread where you can say whatever you want. Something built up inside you? Let it out here. No one will judge you. Those who judge know they're just as sad inside too. I'll go first. Been in love for probably around 4-5 years. Can never take my eyes off the girl. Downside? She barely knows my name. She's a popular. I'm a dork. The thing about her? All the popular girls are B_tchy at my school. Not her. She's not only beautiful, she's got a heart of gold, couldn't hurt a fly. I want to ask her out. Easy enough right? Wrong. I'm too much of a dork to ask her out. I have no courage in that point. Why? You can say I have no spine, I'm a pansy, I need to grow some nuts. I'll stick with self concious.

FunkyJunky 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

duhhh i need more self confidence

Coffee 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

http://www.basilmarket.com/forum/1117110/0//The_Secret_Thread.html

CrayonScribble 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I've said this before, chin up bro. Get a pleasant hair cut, clean your skin and go to the gym to get a nice physique. Then corner her one day and ask if she'd like to go see a movie or play pool with you or something. Initial impressions are pretty much everything in your case.

oOCielOo 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

That's perfectly normal. In fact, it's quite cute. My suggestion is you have a non-shy friend of yours question her about you. See if she likes you. (That's what I do first) And then see what she says to them. It's sort of a way to avoid being humiliated for when you do ask. If she does like you then go for it. Make sure you choose your friend wisely, make sure it's one that is close to you, plus doesn't have interest in her. That way the answer your friend brings back will be truthful and reliable.. so you don't go making a fool of yourself. Good luck. =/

Crusadedd Aug 02 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

CrayonScribble said: "I've said this before, chin up bro. Get a pleasant hair cut, clean your skin and go to the gym to get a nice physique. Then corner her one day and ask if she'd like to go see a movie or play pool with you or something. Initial impressions are pretty much everything in your case." Thats just it though. I can't. Why? Because I know somewhere through that I'll get tossed around verbally somehow. I don't deal very well. I deal is short anger bursts :/. @oOCielOo If I can find a girl who will be friends with me for a long enough time I can get to know her, then sure, I'll try.

CrayonScribble 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Crusadedd said: " Thats just it though. I can't. Why? Because I know somewhere through that I'll get tossed around verbally somehow. I don't deal very well. I deal is short anger bursts :/." I understand mate, that's why you should corner her. One on one, if she's as nice as you say she is then it there shouldn't be much drama. Another thing you could do before you go out is get a friend to mass invite a lot of the school to watch a movie, you and her included. Maybe like 10 or so people. Then she'll kinda know you exist. Later, most kids after a movie exchange phone numbers etc. You can then ask friends out again but this time like invite her and 5 others. Then 3,2,1 and then only her-... And bowchickawowwow.

oOCielOo 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Crusadedd said: " Thats just it though. I can't. Why? Because I know somewhere through that I'll get tossed around verbally somehow. I don't deal very well. I deal is short anger bursts :/. @oOCielOo If I can find a girl who will be friends with me for a long enough time I can get to know her, then sure, I'll try." If I knew you in person then I'd do it. I'm fairly good with that kind of stuff. But I highly doubt you have her email address. XD Hmm... there's always the note in the locker thing which is cute. Secret admirer thing. Leave notes here and there and pick a location of reply, which is a non-obvious place.. just so you don't give yourself away. Meh.. just a thought. XD

Crusadedd 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

CrayonScribble said: " I understand mate, that's why you should corner her. One on one, if she's as nice as you say she is then it there shouldn't be much drama. Another thing you could do before you go out is get a friend to mass invite a lot of the school to watch a movie, you and her included. Maybe like 10 or so people. Then she'll kinda know you exist. Later, most kids after a movie exchange phone numbers etc. You can then ask friends out again but this time like invite her and 5 others. Then 3,2,1 and then only her-... And bowchickawowwow." Mhmm. But I feel I'll make her feel awkward... And I highly doubt... "And bowchickawowwow." @oOCielOo I wish I could. But it's the fact that I can't.. The locker thing. I would be afraid thatd creep her out D:

Bobbert 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Wow. I like this thread Well basically I was supposed to do a recording session today at a friend's house but he flaked on me. He told me he couldn't bring our little amateur studio down from house dad's house down south to the house near my place because he "forgot" when we've been planning to record today for a week or so now.. Then when I asked him what he was doin today he was chillin at my other boys crib, doin nothing. Ferreal tho, it seemed that he was more anxious than me to get some more songs out before school starts, he even said he wanted to put down a mixtape soon too.. And second of all, A girl hit me up to see if i could chill with her today and i catted on her for music. She told me this like 2 days ago, I told the bruh about it like 2 days ago and he said we should hit the music before others so I'm like yeah alright I'm down. And then he ends up cattin on me? He couldn't even have told me the day BEFORE so i coulda atleast changed my plans. god damn!

anb3rlin Aug 02 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I'm no help. I liked this girl for 2 years. I met her. We became friends, close friends, benefits, then BAM! "Oh sorry, I like this guy". Now one year later, she is still with guy thinking they will get married. It's 8th-9th grade. But now I think she is insane because I met a girl over the summer and played a nice game of "baseball"

attackpea210 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Did you hit a home run? o.o

oOCielOo Aug 02 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Crusadedd said: " Mhmm. But I feel I'll make her feel awkward... And I highly doubt... "And bowchickawowwow." @oOCielOo I wish I could. But it's the fact that I can't.. The locker thing. I would be afraid thatd creep her out D:" Hmm the 2nd suggestion that Crayon gave you is pretty good. Group gatherings help, you can always engage in conversation with everyone.. including her, which is 1 step closer. If you bring something along that you could share, or wear a particular piece of clothing that she might like, get her to have a reason to talk to you. Avoid it being anything too strange. Then if she speaks to you, speak to her back, and let it flow slowly from there.

CrayonScribble 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Crusadedd said: " Mhmm. But I feel I'll make her feel awkward... And I highly doubt... "And bowchickawowwow." @oOCielOo I wish I could. But it's the fact that I can't.. The locker thing. I would be afraid thatd creep her out D:" You won't creep her out. Remember there are 5 other people with you guys yar! As long as you don't pour soda on her lap or anything it should be sweet. Slowly cut down on the other people so she can gradually be at ease with you alone.

anb3rlin 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

attackpea210 said: "Did you hit a home run? o.o" 3rd base. Blocked running home