me and my gfwe broke up.

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thread starter yatpang1 Nov 02 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Basil. Im sorry, but you were right. Everything was going perfectly fine, until all of a sudden, on sunday and monday. On sunday, she suddenly started responding to me in one word answers like: mhm. yea. k. ohkay. oh. and on monday, she avoided seeing me in the morning and afternoon.. i asked her if something is wrong, she said no. Then a couple in our school broke up. So i told my gf: they broke because they lost their feelings for each other, we shouldnt let that get to us. she said: i dont know..we'll see. Then, just now..she facebook chatted me (wow) and said: Im sorry, but i dont think we can go on any longer. There is lots of schoolwork and my mom keeps nagging me to not have a bf, its overstressing and im very guilty. Ur a really nice guy, but im sorry. Im really sorry. me: i understand. but just to let u know, i will always like you. her: im sorry. maybe we could go on after highschool (ah? what o.o) me: soo, want to consider this as a break for ur schoolwork? her: i dont know. yeah. Im sorry. but we could still be friends. a very close friend ___________________________________________________________ basil..ah..what to do? Im really depressed because i really like her. I really really like her. Just last night, i had a dream about her too. sigh..now what? T_T

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sonikuboy + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Get over it? Considering you told her you understand and your fine with the breakup, there is no reason to tell us opposite. Besides, sounds like you can get back together after you graduate.

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LoveHate + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

agree with Soniku^^^^^ stop grandstanding. Nobody cares about your relationship. Edit: Let me guess, are you like 14? You sound really immature.

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StiKman19 11/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

It's just high school.

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UkeFades 11/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Keep your head up, im going through a break up also, and it effing sucks.. just hang out with your friends alot more and just try to keep ur mind occupied so the year can go faster then maybe when schools over you guys can get back on track x]

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Heatless 11/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Oh you must have worked so hard, cry cry. Oh you HAD A DREAM? cry cry. Just get over it.

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xJuni0rx2 11/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

On to the next one. "Plenty of fishes in the sea" Cmon brah.

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IcyCold 11/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

It was only just a dream. >.<

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LoveHate 11/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

>she suddenly started responding to me in one word answers like: mhm. yea. k. ohkay. oh. Implying that's a cause for concern. People get busy you know, it's not all about you. >i asked her if something is wrong, she said no. Then respect her and leave her alone for a while. She obviously doesn't want to talk to you, and you obviously can't help her with the problem she has. >Then a couple in our school broke up. So i told my gf: they broke because they lost their feelings for each other, we shouldnt let that get to us. Using other relationships as an example? That's really pathetic. When you do that, you imply that your relationship isn't any different from the hundreds out there, and that your problems are the same as everyone else's. >i understand. but just to let u know, i will always like you. You should have just said "Okay". By adding anything extra, you make them feel uncomfortable, and pressured back into a relationship. >im sorry. maybe we could go on after highschool (ah? what o.o) She's not going to get back with you. Trust me. It's something girls say to make you leave them alone. >soo, want to consider this as a break for ur schoolwork? and yet you carry on saying things that make her feel uncomfortable. She obviously wants to break it off with you, and she doesn't want to talk to you, so leave her the hell alone. >Just last night, i had a dream about her too. Wow, big deal. Grow up.

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Makethemutesing 11/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Follow this simple guide to get her back: 1. Take pictures of her and tape them to your wall. 2. Make a shrine of her face using chewed bubblegum. 3. Send her anonymous candygrams, she'll know its you. Just leave a note that says, "I love you." 4. Go out with her best friend (make her jealous, it works 100% of the time.) 5. Get her name tattooed on your upper-arm. Nothing says, "I love you," like a permanent piece of artwork. 6. Tell your friends that you broke up with her, and she was begging for you to come back. She won't ignore this, and she'll have to live up to the rumors so she won't look like a fool. 7. Cut yourself. This will prove to her that you need her. 8. Beg her to come back. 9. Grow a pair. 10. Get over it. Bam. A recipe for girlfriend a la mode.

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modern 11/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

you're lucky you get to feel that.

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AiRec520 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You again... I thought you were eaten by some mysterious creature after typing all those threads about your "girlfriend"...

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Phlem 11/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Just get over her, it's not like you'll never be with anyone else. Relationships these days.

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Renshine + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Never knew Basilers could be so harsh.. But then again, this is the first time I've seen the OP post a thread like this. I'm guessing everyone else is just frustrated because he posts multiple threads about his "girlfriend".. But yeah, to put it into nicer terms, just let it go.

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LoveHate + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Phlem : Just get over her, it's not like you'll never be with anyone else. Relationships these days. [/quote] I wouldn't say that. People like him sometimes grow up to be creepy desperate old men. [quote] Renshine : Never knew Basilers could be so harsh.. [/quote] No, "harsh" would be telling him to go commit suicide because he obviously has no other friends than this "girlfriend", followed by a bunch of other uncalled-for insults. And that's still nowhere near the worst.

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