Okay guys Girl help please

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thread starter xamcygnus Oct 28 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Okay I really need advice or help. First of all, im having trouble picking between two girls i should ask out ( want to ) and how to actually ask her out. First girl's name is Amanda. We're friends and when im around her i really have fun. We laugh and all sorts of stuff. Second is stephanie i've known her for a long time we have some things in common. here's my dilema: Amanda i really like but i like stephanie as well i wanna spend more time with amanda but stephanie i feel we have a connection. But i also feel the same dor Amanda :|

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ChibiKC 10/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Flip a coin. Heads is Amanda, tails is Stephanie.

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CowWhiskers 10/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Which one is easier?

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xamcygnus 10/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

nooo dude i really like both of then and first poster i tried it but it just kept spinning

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fpsmuch 10/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Be a pimp, date them both, somehow hide it.

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Dinoxsaurus 10/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Why dont you see who will choose you instead?

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sensei7421 10/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Instead of asking yourself which one to take, why dont you try both on for size, but not at the same time. you will surely get your answer then, and avoid being dumped by both for being an A-whole.

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xamcygnus 10/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

i get you guys but in your opinion who?

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BloodNetPC 10/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] ChibiKC : Flip a coin. Heads is Amanda, tails is Stephanie. [/quote] Fair enough. It won't last anyways.

SerenadeBass 10/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Generally, if you need to pick between two, you're ready for neither and its best to wait for time to tell.

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uncleden95 10/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Amanda is a friend right? Therefore she's not your girlfriend. Ask her "Do you like me as a friend or a boyfriend, and please be honest". If she says boyfriend, I don't know how to help you. Maybe choose her if she says yes. About Stephanie, how long have you known her for?

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xamcygnus 10/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

friend as in not close friends but we hang out and known her since 6th grade

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ballinskater 10/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I've been in the same dilemma as you. How I solved it was simple(to me at least). First, ask yourself some simple quesions such as: who did you know first? Who do you think likes you back? Why do you like Amanda or Steph? Who do you truely have feelings for? Why do you like them? (looks, attitude, personality, etc.) once you answered them, then decide. Also, here's a tip: if you ask one of them, and you get rejected, do NOT ask the other one out. Why? Because if she finds out you asked the person before, the second girl you asked will assume that she's a second option and a last result. Get what I mean? Can't really explain haha

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dappersnake 10/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

why wouldn't you just ask both of them out on different days?

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XxphillipxX 10/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

If you're gonna have to go to basil... its not gonna last.

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