Ugh Puberty,School,Girls,Friends Problems. Need Help Guys!

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thread starter DIljit Oct 20 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Okay so i will explain Whats Going on in my Life right now and i hate it so much. I need to fix this so people please help me here I really need advice here. I will tell you guys whats all happening in sub sections Puberty I dont think i have much to explain here you guys should know how i feel about the world. Its just so much hormonal stuff going on such as pimples, girl obessions ETC. School Okay so i moved to a new place so i am at a new school. Its been about 6 weeks until school started and i still haven't been used to it. My Grades are really bad. I am currently failing 2 classes(geometry and Spanish) and i am about to fail (English). I have no clue why i am failing classes i do good in school and get from 80-85%. But this new school i am really bad. I really need help with this one Girls This is driving me crazy. i know i am in my teen years(15) but i am having the moment where i am going crazy over girls (Ex: Always Thinking about them, How to impress them,Clothes,Style Etc) and its giving me depressions. It even sometimes interrupts with my school. Friends Its been over 6 Weeks since this new school i started at and i still have made around 5-7 friends. I barely talk in class because of my Low Self esteem and low self confidence i have no clue what to talk about. I hate having so little friends which aren't even in most of my classes. I really need help to fix this. So basically i need advice on how i can: Make my grades better, Stop thinking about girls, and make more friends. i really need you advice basil on this one so can someone please tell me what to do i am going crazy.

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TopMushroom 10/20/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

New school = Fresh start, doing seclude yourself and make it obvious that you're a shy loser. (No offense, just be more open or something) Puberty = Wait till your voice stops cracking before you ask out a girl Girls = Its normal to think about them 25/8 <-- yes i know School = Do your best, meng

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ZYBlade 10/20/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Pimples are easy to solve. Bathing yourself everyday should be able to prevent it, however im sure that there is stuff proactiv and whatnot.

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gunhold6 10/20/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Get amnesia F3

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iamsmart963 10/20/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Get more confidence so you make more friends More friends to impress girls? Impress girls to satisfy you so you do well in school Just wait for your main growth spurt to end

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DIljit 10/20/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

ugh guys please help my parenst are killing me

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LeechLess 10/20/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Pimp yo clothes Pimp yo shoes Pimp yo ride Pimp yo Hair Most of all Pimp yo self

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mike3110 10/20/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Basically you have confidence issues. Man up, talk more to your classmates, get to know them, make friends. With girls, you can try to impress but be prepared for failure. School, once you got friends you can ask them for help, or just ask anyone in your class for help.

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ShadyAce 10/20/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Be more open to everyone, therefore you will get more friends, and you will slowly advance to girls, while getting satisfied enough to concentrate in class.

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azndnangel 10/20/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Puberty: Just ignore it, you know you'll change and nothing can stop it so why worry? About the pimples, just get an acne cream and wash your face a lot. School: It takes some getting used to, just keep trying and you'll get the results you deserve. Don't let girls interfere with school, remember that a relationship could be temporarily (honestly, i doubt you'd thnk you'd be able to marry every girl you date). Girls: Calm down, just be friends with them and approach slowly. You don't wanna come off as a pervert Friends: You'll never get any more friends if you don't try, you don't have anything to lose, so just talk more?

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DIljit 10/20/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

hmm i feel somewhat better guys anymore suggestions i can really use them thanks for the serious ones

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ibosser2 10/20/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

r u cereal? 15 and puberty questions? where were u these 5 years?

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azndnangel 10/20/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] ibosser2 : r u cereal? 15 and puberty questions? where were u these 5 years? [/quote] Puberty hits people at different ages. Source: Justin Bieber

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Wolfz 10/20/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Ok First you get the money,then when you get the money, you get the power, Then when you get the power, then you get the Women

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Shadowkill 10/20/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well, I'm sorry to have to say it like this, but hormonal stuff (pimples etc) aren't going to go away. If you have acne or severe pimple issues, there are medicines for it (at least, here in the Netherlands). All the other stuff is perfectly normal, but that doesn't make it less hurtful(l?). I think your main issue is low self esteem. I have to break it to you: Having a good amount of self esteem will help you in all of your problem areas. I've had the same problems as you, except for the bad grades. However, if you have a good amount of self esteem, the other problems that interfere with your school work will disappear. Also, you'll be confident about answers to test questions (this is a common problem for people who fail their tests). It's simple, if you have self esteem, people in general will like you more (or not, in my case I only have a few close friends and some friends, because I have a pretty strong character). This is because you can be yourself. People might not agree with me on this, but if you have a good amount of self esteem, girls will like you more. Not all girls will like you, some will. Also because you're able to get YOUR personality out to them. About the friends problem, don't worry. You'll make friends sooner or later. I don't have too many friends (I also don't value everybody as a friend, most more an acquintance), but the friends I do have like me for who I am and are there for me. Self esteem will help you in making friends. How do you get self esteem? You'll probably have to find out yourself. Everyone has his/her own way. But I do know being fit (doing a sport) and being clean, tidy, having a good hygiene etc does help. Also, when you're having trouble talking to a girl/other classmate/whoever you want, you should remember: practice makes perfect. You just have to suck it up. Yeah, it'll be awkward at time. Yeah, some things won't work out. Yeah, a girl blows you off. But that's part of the learning process. You'll notice your progression, you can even mark it. For instance, start today with: Not able to start talking to someone. Try to talk to someone new (like a classmate) every week or so (set realistic goals for yourself). It can be small talk, like how's the weather, or about the test. It's even easier when someone joins the group your talking with, try to engage someone then. You'll notice that in a month, you can see your progression: Able to start talking to someone and keeping up a conversation. One thing about school: Keep trying, don't give up. Try evaluating your answers with your teacher, what did you do wrong? What's a good method to study? You'll get there eventually =)

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