My girlfriend likes another guy

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thread starter ElitistMan Sep 09 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

My girlfriend told me today that she likes another guy, but that she loves me. What am I suppose to think about this? I'm at a loss really. What would you guys do if you were me, or how would you interpret that. Been dating her 11 months now.

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Typical 09/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

It could be a call of attention... But either way, I don't think you'd want to be in a one way relationship. This ain't no charity! @Above. There's a difference between checking girls out, and liking someone to the fact you tell your girlfriend.

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jeffrey44236 09/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Typical : It could be a call of attention... But either way, I don't think you'd want to be in a one way relationship. This ain't no charity! @Above. There's a difference between checking girls out, and liking someone to the fact you tell your girlfriend. [/quote] I know, I just meant that she could just enjoy the moment spent with that other guy, but it's just to have "Fun" and it's gonna pass cause she love the Ts so he should just get something new in their relation so she enjoy the time spend with him more than the other dude. Man not meant to be monogam....

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skyjustin 09/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Benzor : Lol. The best answers have already been given, I was just saying how 'stupid' it'd be to try and make your partner jealous that way. :] [/quote] Whatever makes you happy buddy

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Regulus133 09/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] jeffrey44236 : Man not meant to be monogam.... [/quote] If you meant, "Man isn't meant to be monogamous," I'd have to disagree. It's not that I think we are meant to be monogamous, but that there is no "meant to." I enjoy monogamy and wouldn't want anything else. Psychology, biology, evolutionary theory, and so on might suggest that humans have developed to not be monogamous, but I reject that as much as I reject religious claims that we are. There are simply too many factors to take into account for the modern human's design and preferences, from cultural norms to philosophy. Our minds allow us--sometimes force us--to not behave as merely instinctual animals.

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Fronz 09/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Are you considered a "nice guy" by any chance? Because if you are break up with her as soon as possible. She is most likely cheating on you; but talk to her first just to be safe.

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steve30 09/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Two's company, Three's a party giggity ;D

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MrCthat 09/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

She just 'likes's the guy. You gotta ask her how much she likes this guy. Like if it's a thing she keeps thinking about or if she is even considering choosing between you both.

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Travis 09/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

give her a swirly in public and spit on the back of her head when youre done.

sonikuboy 09/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Sounds like a job for Ricki Lake.

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Chaud + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] crocophile : just break up with her before she breaks up with you. you always need to keep the upper hand in these situations. [/quote] Please. NEVER listen to this sort of advice... Upper hand...? This is an extremely myopic, naive view of relationships. What is this about a power struggle...? This is not a professional friendship; this is a romantic relationship. I'm not saying that there is no such thing as a power struggle in relationships; however, to view something like this as a power struggle is asinine. Sirenheart (if that's his name) gave the best advice. Talk it out with her and keep calm. Lots of people forget that anger won't persuade anyone to do what you want. All you can do is talk it out, as Sirenheart said.

Travis 09/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Chaud : Please. NEVER listen to this sort of advice... Upper hand...? This is an extremely myopic, naive view of relationships. What is this about a power struggle...? This is not a professional friendship; this is a romantic relationship. I'm not saying that there is no such thing as a power struggle in relationships; however, to view something like this as a power struggle is asinine. Sirenheart (if that's his name) gave the best advice. Talk it out with her and keep calm. Lots of people forget that anger won't persuade anyone to do what you want. All you can do is talk it out, as Sirenheart said. [/quote] you're so wrong it's not even funny.

Shmebro 09/11/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

you follow your heart. but dont go crying back to us when it doesnt work out

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kenpach 09/11/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

This cant end well

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ckayy 09/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Show her how much you really love her, She'll reconsider ;)

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puzzles 09/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

hmm at least she told you before she did something. My ex banged the dude THEN told me.

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