My Girlfriend Is Pregnant.

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thread starter TheHurtLocker May 24 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I'm out for the rest of the day, my girlfriend just came back and I have to talk to her, If you have some helpful advice feel free to PM me. ONLY HELPFUL ADVICE. No introductions straight to the point. I am in deep crap right now, my 17 year old girlfriend is pregnant and I have no clue what to do now I am in desperate need of advice right now and I am too embarassed to talk about it to my counselor. I don't want to keep the baby, but my girlfriend does, she already told her parents and they're all like "OMG CONGRATULATIONS! I'M SO HAPPY" while my dad is like "...Your problem, get out of my house." This is ruining my life right now and I only have three options right now. Option 1: Ditch her, dump her, leave her. I don't want to do this at all because I love her very much.. Option 2: Keep it. No... Option 3: Put the baby up for adoption once it's born. I really don't know what to do right now I am so confused, sad and lost right now. I would also like to add that we've been together since the age of 12, so we clearly know each other very well and trust each other. Okay I got it, I should've wore protection, stop bugging me about it already.

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begrma 05/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Cover your willy next time.

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HolyMythos 05/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Oh teen pregnancies. You'll love her until the baby is born.

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DrTeletubbie 05/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Live with your gf?

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Sentiment 05/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You "love her very much" but you don't want to keep the baby? What the freaking hell?

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Hyperstep 05/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Ask her why she wants to keep it for starters.

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TheHurtLocker 05/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] begrma : Cover your willy next time. [/quote] I hope this is the last unhelpful advice I'll be getting.

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rydog77 05/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Kill the baby.

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Eeveepony 05/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You don't really have much of a choice. You can either A) dump her and pay child support B) Stay with her, support her through the mess up you guys both contributed to and pay child support. Option 3 doesn't apply to you.

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pokkedief 05/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

you luv her but hate ur baby ? please next time be carefull and now u ruined her life and the baby's

TheHurtLocker + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Sentiment : You "love her very much" but you don't want to keep the baby? What the freaking hell? [/quote] That baby is going to ruin my life, you don't understand. Actually, it's going to ruin both our lives, she just doesn't know that yet.

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francis1000 05/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Exactly, why don't you want the kid? Because you're not prepared too show it happiness? Or you just don't like children?

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ZachLuscious + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You know there is a thing called "Mutual masturbation" you know that right? next time use a condom. i dont care if you're getting caught in the heat of the moment. i say your best bet is adoption. you're to young to be a father. or if by some miracle the baby could die inside her before it's born. it's called a miss-carriage i think. @Above^^ whether you like kids or not. parenthood is something that will basically distroy you. you know how you see videos or hear stories of how cool your parents used to be before they had kids? it's not that they chose to be like that. their children made them into that. my brother knocked up some girl he hated and was going to break up with. now they're married and have the most annoying and loud baby ever. and so far it's brought out the worst of them and they act so dead inside anymore.

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sonikuboy 05/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] begrma : Cover your willy next time. [/quote] Exactly.

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Eeveepony + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Not everyone wants a kid, especially in their teen years. WHY he doesn't want the kid is no one's business but his own and is irrelevant to the question at hand. He is a teenager, that is good enough reason not to want the baby. Also, at the people telling him to wrap it next time, birth control can, and does fail on occasion. It happens.

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