My problem in life help please.

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thread starter PwnOver Apr 14 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I like this girl called Cindy. I knew her for atleast one and a half year by now. I loved her for quite a while, about couple months or near one year. Recently a guy basically that was new to her just asked her out in my face, and she said yes. At this point i really dont know what to do anymore. She acts as if she likes me abit but the other guy alot more. i really need advice, should i just leave this alone? Or wait for her? I really like her at this point more then i ever realized i dont think i can just drop it and go to another girl.. i wish it was that simple..

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BurninDavyn 04/14/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

1. You don't love her. 2. You need to get over her. She won't come crawling back to you. 3. Enjoy.

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PwnOver 04/14/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I dont know if i can do that, I like her no more then anyone i met in my life.

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Sleepyx714 04/14/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Lol this is like everyone's life problem when they're in high school / middle school (mostly middle) you only knew her for a year and a half i really doubt you actually really love her you just think you do.

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jin611 04/14/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] BurninDavyn : 1. You don't love her. 2. You need to get over her. She won't come crawling back to you. 3. Enjoy. [/quote] What he said basically. And also you could of i dont know....ASK HER OUT WHILE SHE WAS STILL SINGLE? did you even think of that?

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HolyDragon 04/14/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

She never probably considered you anything more than what you were, seeing as she accepted someone else's offer. Once you truly give up, the feelings will fade pretty fast.

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jibob1 04/14/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

@burning he is correct with #1 if you are young if you are older there is a SLIM chance that you do OT:IMO i say wait it out a bit

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PreciseShot 04/14/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] BurninDavyn : 1. You don't love her. 2. You need to get over her. She won't come crawling back to you. 3. Enjoy. [/quote] You're cool. I'm sure you've been through teenage love before. Don't kill others.

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MizMisa 04/14/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Just give up. She isn't interested, chose the other guy over you, and waiting for her will only make it harder on you. Move on, it may take a while, but you'll come across other girls.

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iFool 04/14/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

1 year and a half? You waited way too long bro. People stop liking someone like after a month..

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2CanDine 04/14/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Can someone tell me the difference between thinking you love her and really actually loving her?

EmperorP 04/14/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] 2CanDine : Can someone tell me the difference between thinking you love her and really actually loving her? [/quote] You can't, dam crazy hormone teens.

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MizMisa 04/14/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] iFool : 1 year and a half? You waited way too long bro. People stop liking someone like after a month.. [/quote] Lies and slander. When you're really in love it takes longer to move on. Perhaps like a few months rather than one month. xD

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jibob1 04/14/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

thinking you love her:in about ehh say 6months you realize you wasted your time wanting them so badly you missed out on other people? thats my guess

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MsChristina + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Separate lust from love please. She obviously chose the other guy over you, thus meaning that she doesn't like you as much as him and will never like you as much. Get over it and move on with life please. There's bound to be other people. She's not the end of the world.

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