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thread starter GenesisCombo Feb 05 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

So uhm i was wondering.. How would it be not awkward once you get a girlfriend? Like how did you ask out your first girlfriend, and how'd you make conversation with her before. What did you say when asking her out. And how'd you break up with her?

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PhantomStarz 02/05/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

be honest, and give her a good reason. be nice about it.

Tortoise 02/05/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Answers to your questions : 1.I grabbed her out of her group, and started walking around, sooner or later, when her hand got close to mine, I held her hand and asked her right there. Girls like to be asked in a cute fashion, so don't be embarrassed if other people are watching. 2. Just say hi, & make small talk, how was your day, and start from there. 3. "So I've been thinking... will you be my girlfriend?" 4. I pulled her out of her group, started walking around, sooner or later, I ended it with a lame excuse.

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tailedfox13 02/05/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well, I have got rejected once.. dumped once, and in a relationship atm. First time I met her, I didn't even think about asking her out. I just hung out and talked with her. Btw, it was a new school year and she was assigned to sit next to me. That very day, I told her, "Dangg.. you're cute." (I couldn't help it o_O) Then we started talking about some other random stuff. We were working on this assignment together. We didn't have enough time to finish it in class, so we had to exchange emails, etc. Then, we became good friends soon after like idk.. a month later? We started texting each other. then I became really interested in her. (her personality was awesome, she was attractive, etc.) I randomly asked her if she thought I was cute and she said yes. :DD I asked her out when I heard from her best friend that she liked me.

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XceIic 02/05/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Talk, don't think about awkwardness. Be funny and subtle. And be faithful. Always, because if you don't, I'm guessing you'll get your head re-sized a few inches smaller. As in, support her, don't cheat, don't be a jerk. Don't eat her face or anything if you decide to lunge at her and make out. Probably not going to end well.

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Phill 02/05/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I asked her out at a new years eve part, just straight up " you wanna go out with me?" I treated her like a friend before we started going out, Im still going out with her.

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christobhal2 02/05/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

well, i don't really go out with friends. i only go out with girls that i've met to date them, then they turn out as friends if it doesn't work out. won't be that awkward.

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iFracture 02/05/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well, I'm CURRENTLY with my (I consider her) first girlfriend. Any other was just.. Yeah. Unwanted, accidental, and basically, just.. Yeah. I sort of, started to see the girl I'm with. I actually asked her out after going to the movies one night. She doesn't actually live here, she's about 30 minutes away, although I try to see her every weekend. I'm sixteen, seventeen in two and a half months. She's Seventeen, turning eighteen two months after myself, so there's a little bit of a difference. It was never /really/ awkward with her though. I was only nervous, is all. Seeing as it was my first kiss, etc. I never really /Made/ conversation before hand. We just sort of.. Clicked, I guess. We met back in the summer, and I texted her, seeing as she wasn't actually here, with myself. We texted sometimes, then I lost my phone, so I lost all track for over a month. She texted my number afterwords and I resumed talking and getting along. We actually started becoming closer through a family trip that I had with her, because the guy that her mother is seeing, is here and is friends with my father. (Shh, they don't know. They think she's dating some 'Billy' Guy) We started just being, close, I guess. I completely lost track of actually ASKING her out. After the date she kinda hinted at it with the whole: 'You know.. You haven't actually /asked/ me out'. So I did, and we've only been truly dating for a month now, although /seeing/ for longer. I'm completely madly in love with her and I dread the day If we break up. So, yes. ;X

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