The uncomfortable crush? (for guys)

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thread starter LMGG Aug 07 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

So this goes for guys out there... What would you do if you knew this cool and friendly guy for quite some time now and months later, he tells you he has a crush on you? I chose guys since in my personal experience, they seem to be more intolerant than girls

koko800 08/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well, what does he look like?

heinous 08/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Sorry, I'm not gay.

DeMoNiAk 08/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

koko800 said: "Well, what does he look like?" Like a guy, I suppose.

LMGG 08/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

koko800 said: "Well, what does he look like?" Average I suppose....

heinous 08/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

koko800 said: "Well, what does he look like?" Like a woman, I suppose.

ClementZ 08/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I'd tell him I'm not gay.

Jamelek 08/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

''Whoa, sorry dude. I don't bend that way. Now what were you saying about that movie again?'' Something like that.

TehProducer 08/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Probably make a joke out of it, then feel awkward whenever I'm around him so I'd stop hanging out with him.

bvelk 08/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I'd tell him that I find it a compliment that he has a crush on me, but that I'm not gay. If it's awkward, I'd probably just make sure that we can laugh about it, so that it'd be just like normal friendship. :P

taeilmoon 08/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Say "Me too." And walk away :D

jaykay244 08/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Since I'm comfortable with my sexuality, I'd just straight tell him I'm not gay.And even though it might be awkward, I'd probably still hang out with him though since he's "cool"

Drag0nKlnght 08/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

LMGG said: " That's horrible... besides he's supposed to be a person you like, can you be such a (insert word here) to cut him off your life for that?" Well... We normal guys like women, so this situation is fail.

tianyin 08/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

bisexual here so if i like him, ill say yes; if i am neutral, ill be like i ll go out with you and we will see what happen, but dont have high expectation; if i dont like him, well i wouldnt be friend with him in first place :> however no way i would date close frd, totally ruin the friendship if relationship dont work out :| unless i rly rly rly luv that person ovo

HydeControl 08/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I would laugh and tell him that's cool, and then I would say.."So I know you have met my girlfriend." And invite him over for Pizza. :] FYI, I have two gay best friends, So I'm used to it. xD

TotoroTotoro 08/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I'd be flattered.