How do you know if a girl is really into you?

basilmarket.com forums : Chat | 15 posts archived

thread starter Bobbert Aug 05 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I've been hanging out with this girl a lot and I have a thing for her. There's this thing where we're in a "trio" as she calls it.. me, her, and this other girl. She says we're the 3 Friends Forever...(yeah i know) But when we hang out it usually is just us 2, the other girl isn't really part of it. And one time I was going to go chill with her and she was SO different. Like she did her hair really cute and she wore this insanely hot dress. And it seemed like she really wanted it to be just me and her all day and nobody else. But at times she seems like she doesn't really feel like talking to me, so I just let it go and just stop hitting her up. So yeah, how can you genuinely tell if she's into you?

yeyoflx2 08/05/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

well you obviously know when she's in you

SnailsinnerX 08/05/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Ask her. 0.02

TehProducer 08/05/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Seems like she's playing hot and cold. If she's willing to dress up for you, it means she wants your attention. But she wants attention too! Thus, hot and cold. I say go for it, ask her on a date. Don't take her to a dinner and a movie, too many guys do that. Do something CHEESY and romantic. Most girls are into that stuff, but if you're her friend you can CASUALLY ask her if she's into cheesy romance. Good luck bro

Bobbert Aug 05 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

no, i really don't. And dang I'm not a straightforward guy, and if she wasnt into me I don't want it to be awkward @the producer, what do you think about going to the zoo? because she was talking about going there sometime. And I think I really messed up because that one time when she dressed up really nice, I didn't have the courage to say anything about it, so it might seem that I wasn't giving her the attention that she wanted?

rikobyte 08/05/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

SerenadeSin said: "If she pulls down her pants and says 'do me', you know she wants you." This

Kingdos06 08/05/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Lol you just asked the internet to help your relationship . But to thee question , Just talk to her ,like in a serious tonee of voicee .

SatanAngel 08/05/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

She will tell you. If she doesn't, then it's a no

TheReturn 08/05/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

If she wants to hang out, just you two, then try to hang with her some more. If she's just gonna blow it off the next day, it ain't worth it. To be honest, she sounds like my ex. Anyways, if she's into you then take her out or something. Try to ask her questions that would tell you if she's really into you. Or questions that she wouldn't answer if she wasn't into you. You gotta beat around the bush sometimes, and it'll take a while, but you'll get the answers you want.

Zaptacious 08/05/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

ask her, if she isnt blunt with her answer she's been thinking bout it but if is blunt then she knows how she feels bout ya

parco 08/05/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

ask her if failed move somewhere far

ichigoXIII 08/05/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

tip:...never ask the public in the internet abt relationship problems.... all u get is nothing but bloody hell crap..... btw ask her wether she's into u or not,chillax abit,start out wif some chatting,then move on slowly to asking her.. if u ask her immediately she might get shock n ignore u for months.... ...if she isnt, then too bad...theres more to life than love...

Bobbert 08/05/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

yeah there is a lot of crap but some prove to be worth reading. i'm still thinking of what I should do..

TehProducer 08/05/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Bobbert said: "no, i really don't. And dang I'm not a straightforward guy, and if she wasnt into me I don't want it to be awkward @the producer, what do you think about going to the zoo? because she was talking about going there sometime. And I think I really messed up because that one time when she dressed up really nice, I didn't have the courage to say anything about it, so it might seem that I wasn't giving her the attention that she wanted?" She's hinting, so she wants to go. Don't worry about the dressing up thing, you feel like you missed your chance. Eh, whatever. Use that feeling of loss as determination to go out and get that date at the zoo! Also, don't act cool. Be yourself. She's into you, not someone you could be. In my first year of high school for the first semester I tried that with a girl. COMPLETE FAIL. But it was good in the long run, because I learned to be myself. Which people say all the time, but you never actually remember it until you should've

ichigoXIII 08/05/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

TehProducer said: " She's hinting, so she wants to go. Don't worry about the dressing up thing, you feel like you missed your chance. Eh, whatever. Use that feeling of loss as determination to go out and get that date at the zoo! Also, don't act cool. Be yourself. She's into you, not someone you could be. In my first year of high school for the first semester I tried that with a girl. COMPLETE FAIL. But it was good in the long run, because I learned to be myself. Which people say all the time, but you never actually remember it until you should've" i totaly agree wif the stuff he said...be diffrent be urself.... ppl like u for hu u r not hu ur not.... acting cool doesn't help... if they fell for it,it wont look nice if they found out the truth in the future take things slow n easy...chillax when u're near her or feel nervous... u can try changing the subject when things starting to get complicated.... btw im not the whole play boy or into girls kind of guy so but ive help many frens abt these kinda stuff...