Your love life?

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thread starter 00610228 Aug 02 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Tell you love life up till now, if you don't want to share, make 1 up. Alright so here goes mine... So my first crush was when I was like grade 3 or 4, not much. And my second one, which lasted a pretty long time was in gr5 allll the way till grade 7. In grade 7, I didn't really like anyone, since most of the girls were going through puberty and I looked short..In grade 8, I met this girl( we will address her by the name of seh), I had like the longest crush on her,and during grade 8-9 summer, I got my first girl friend :D....but inside, I still had feelings for Seh. So I broke up with my new girlfriend. And all the way from grade 8 to grade 11(right now) I still have feelings for seh and can't tell her cause, she feels me and her has been friends for a long time, and that I'm trapped in the friendzone forever You don't have to put the real name, make one up if you want to.

Visionary Aug 02 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

It was a brisk autumn day. I saw her under a tree, in the courtyard, reading a thick textbook of a subject I knew I'd never understand. She looked up and our eyes met... it was as a chorus of angels sang from the heavens; we knew this was something different. I walked up to her and started up a conversation, and before we knew it two hours had gone by. We talked about class, work, politics (a field in which I have little expertise; she taught me quite a bit), even our favorite television programming. By then It had gotten dark, but we weren't done. I took her to a diner by my place and we shared a meal. I don't even remember what we had; only staring into her eyes and feeling a combination of lost, excited, and hopeful. We chatted until the place closed, and went back to my apartment - not intending to do more than continue speaking (although I'm sure we were both thinking about it). I set the kettle boiling and offered her some tea. As I straightened up the place (face it, it's hard to keep the bachelor pad clean, and I was never too lucky with the ladies to care), I noticed her lingering around the cupboards. Something had piqued her interest. She made her tea and poured ungodly amounts of honey in it. I figured she was a little odd, but it was something more than that. No, she was drinking the honey straight. It was when she finished the bottle and started licking around the inside I noticed it. She was a bear. It looked straight at me, dropped the empty bottle of honey, and rushed towards me. I quickly dodged, and jumped onto the fire escape. I had to get away, I had to do something . As I climbed/jumped to the ground, and it followed, I knew if it came down to a footrace I would never make it alive. I had to fight. I picked up a nearby pipe, and swung it around recklessly. I landed a few blows, but the bear appeared unfazed. It was as it reared up on its hind legs, I saw an opening. I quickly stabbed with the sharp end of the pipe. Direct hit. I knew I had done some serious damage; the tip pierced the skin and went 2-3 inches deep. It had slowed considerably, and I knew I now had the upper hand. I dodged, blocked, and parried. When it came time, I delivered the killing blow: a skull-shattering strike to the temple. After that, I took a moment to mourn the death of my worthy adversary, and moved on. It probably sounds unbelievable but it's a true story.

senyu 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Nobody loves me, I love nobody.

cottonice 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

My love life? Oh, i think you meant my lust life.

xShaunyx Aug 02 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I'm not going to write out a full blown story so I'll summarise it in key points: • Met Girl A. • Broke up with Girl A due to distance issues that came up due to out-of-control factors (8 months) • Girl B approached me. • Broke up with Girl B after 2 months as I found we were incompatible, also, age/mindset. • Girl C approached me. • Went out with Girl C for 2 years. • Broke up with Girl C 3 and a half weeks ago. Hmm, it's awesome being single, it's like having free trade barriers on my bank account.

attackpea210 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Honestly, in the case of your friend seh, I think you should just make out with her and get it over. She'll be mad, MAYBE, but if not, then it'll spark something nice. and if she does get mad, it won't last long since you're friends... just tell her you really like her

DarkWater 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Visionary said: "It was a brisk autumn day. I saw her under a tree, in the courtyard, reading a thick textbook of a subject I knew I'd never understand. She looked up and our eyes met... it was as a chorus of angels sang from the heavens; we knew this was something different. I walked up to her and started up a conversation, and before we knew it two hours had gone by. We talked about class, work, politics (a field in which I have little expertise; she taught me quite a bit), even our favorite television programming. By then It had gotten dark, but we weren't done. I took her to a diner by my place and we shared a meal. I don't even remember what we had; only staring into her eyes and feeling a combination of lost, excited, and hopeful. We chatted until the place closed, and went back to my apartment - not intending to do more than continue speaking (although I'm sure we were both thinking about it). I set the kettle boiling and offered her some tea. As I straightened up the place (face it, it's hard to keep the bachelor pad clean, and I was never too lucky with the ladies to care), I noticed her lingering around the cupboards. Something had piqued her interest. She made her tea and poured ungodly amounts of honey in it. I figured she was a little odd, but it was something more than that. No, she was drinking the honey straight. It was when she finished the bottle and started licking around the inside I noticed it. She was a bear. It looked straight at me, dropped the empty bottle of honey, and rushed towards me. I quickly dodged, and jumped onto the fire escape. I had to get away, I had to do something . As I climbed/jumped to the ground, and it followed, I knew if it came down to a footrace I would never make it alive. I had to fight. I picked up a nearby pipe, and swung it around recklessly. I landed a few blows, but the bear appeared unfazed. It was as it reared up on its hind legs, I saw an opening. I quickly stabbed with the sharp end of the pipe. Direct hit. I knew I had done some serious damage; the tip pierced the skin and went 2-3 inches deep. It had slowed considerably, and I knew I now had the upper hand. I dodged, blocked, and parried. When it came time, I delivered the killing blow: a skull-shattering strike to the temple. After that, I took a moment to mourn the death of my worthy adversary, and moved on. It probably sounds unbelievable but it's a true story." You, sir, just made my day.

Crusadedd 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Don't got one. Wish I had. Too much of a dork to grow the nuts to ask someone out. Hopefully my day will come. Hopefully soon.

Tranced 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

senyu said: "Nobody loves me, I love nobody." Want a hug?

CrayonScribble 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I'm still content with having girls that are just friends.

jmboy 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

~met a girl when i was in 8th grade (she was in 9th) ~and to this day we're still friends ~i cant talk to her in person for along time (the longest conversation we had was like 4minutes) ~has a bf haha ~but she knew that i liked her after she broke up with her other bf (long time ago) yea i cant do anything right now due to the fact she has a bf UGH >:

fuzzles22 Aug 02 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

My first girlfriend was in grade 6. I found out that she liked me, and because it was "cool" to have a girlfriend I asked her out. We never went anywhere as a couple, but we just talked a lot at school. She got mad at me one day because I wouldn't keep my bangs out of my face for her so she dumped me. At that point, I actually kinda loved her because I got to know her. Anyway, by the end of the day she asked me out again. I said no. I'm the kind of person who doesn't date online, because I think its really stupid. But apparently this girl from MS thought I was her Maple boyfriend for a while, and we started talking. Eventually, I just accepted it and really started to like her. I started getting annoyed by her a lot lately though. I found myself staying up till 4:30 am on a school night because of her. Also, she kept insisting that I get my microphone or webcam or something, even though I told her I can't because it's too late. After a while, I got kind of annoyed by her so I broke up with her and asked to still be friends. Instead of agreeing, she insulted me so I insulted her back. We deleted each other from Myspace, AIM, MS, everything. Recently, I added her on Myspace again and we started becoming friends again. We were now talking about more serious things than we were when we were going out. Eventually I started falling in love with her again even though she's 1 year younger than me, and she lives far away from me. I got depressed because I couldn't be her boyfriend again, but then I realized that I should stop caring about anything anymore. We still talk every day, but I don't love her anymore. A while ago, I fell madly in love with this girl in my class. She would always cry because she thought she was ugly, but I always told her she's not. One day on MSN, I told her that I liked her and then she asked me out. I was so happy that night, that I slept like a baby. The next night she chatted me on MSN. She told me that she's breaking up with me because "I could do much better than her". When in reality it was because she liked somebody else. That really crushed me :/. Also, I've had some weird experiences lately. A few weeks ago, some girl I know started talking to me about how she dumped her boyfriend, flashing, etc (this girl is pretty). Eventually she said "haha we should go out", and I responded with a maybe. Well, she logged off when I was brbing and apparently she went camping with her family. When she came back, I realized she had a new boyfriend. I chatted her and said "You have a boyfriend now :O?" She responded with "haha yeah, it coulda been you ;P". At that point, I realized it wasn't worth it. She didn't really love any of the people she dated. She just dated people for the "status" of having a boyfriend. A few days after that, this girl asked me out. She's had many boyfriends before, and like the first girl, just wants to have a boyfriend. I of course said no, because she knew nothing about me and didn't actually love me. A few

skittlesmoo 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I liked this guy from 1-4 and in grade 4 he told me "We could only ever be friends". I got all depressed and the next year he was hanging out with my neighbour and I came off my school bus (I got accepted into a gifted school) and he was like "Omg, you're so cute now...I'm sorry" and I was like -.-''. This year, this guy (let's call him E) became my friend. I started crushing on him and my other friend (let's call her Yam who knew E for like 7 years) was like "He's so ugly and he's an idiot." So I stopped liking him and a day later, Yam was like "I like him." I decided not to do anything because he probably liked her more. I became really good friends with E and Yam thought I still liked him. In the end. He confessed to me and we just decided to stay best friends since he was leaving the school anyways. IN YOUR FACE YAM!

xreminiscing Aug 02 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

My story (that's longer than it probably should be =p): There was this guy in two of my classes back in the eighth grade. I knew who he was, but we hung out with completely different groups of people so we never had the chance to actually meet. We sat next to each other in English class for the entire year, but we had the meanest teacher in the whole school and we happened to sit right in front of her so we didn't talk. I also had him in my math class, and, looking back, it's as if we talked to everybody in that class but each other. Fast forward to freshman year. I signed up for piano to fulfill my fine arts requirement, and he was accidentally placed into that class. He sat facing me, but slightly to the left. At first we didn't talk to each other much, and by the end of the period we would leave the class by ourselves. The only times we talked were when this guy, that both us knew from middle school, intervened. We ended up hanging out with the same group of friends that year, because all the freshman from my middle school were pretty much bunched up together in one spot. When we first started talking, I thought he was kind of annoying because he kept doing things like poking me. He was the laid back type that likes to mess around in class to entertain himself rather than doing work, while I was more of the uptight, "nerdy" one of the pair. My initial thought of him was that he's really cute, but I would never consider dating him. In fact, at the time I happened to like a friend of his. Months go by and as we started to talk more we figured we had many things in common (including the fact that we both play MS o.o). At the end of the period, we would even wait for each other to walk out to the quad for lunch together. By December of freshman year, my feelings for his friend started to slip, and I thought more and more about how nice he was and all the times we would joke around with each other. I started to like him, but it was too late: he had just asked another girl from another school to be his girlfriend. Not wanting to break up his relationship, I continued to hang out with him casually but did not mention anything about my feelings. Come late January and my friends started to notice I had feelings for him. His friends seemed to notice his feelings for me too. They would always say things like, "You two look so cute together!". This one time he was teaching me how to tie a tie and my friends kept taking pictures of us. I knew he had a girlfriend, and I was completely devastated, but I would always tell my friends to stop joking around because he's in a relationship. February was when things really started to progress. He broke up with his girlfriend at the beginning of the month because they had grown apart. It's hard not to when you don't even go to the same school. Every time I talked to him I would literally start to feel my stomach fill up with butterflies. I had never felt this way about a guy before. Sure I liked plenty of guys in th

fuzzles22 08/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

xreminiscing said: "My story (that's longer than it probably should be =p): There was this guy in two of my classes back in the eighth grade. I knew who he was, but we hung out with completely different groups of people so we never had the chance to actually meet. We sat next to each other in English class for the entire year, but we had the meanest teacher in the whole school and we happened to sit right in front of her so we didn't talk. I also had him in my math class, and, looking back, it's as if we talked to everybody in that class but each other. Fast forward to freshman year. I signed up for piano to fulfill my fine arts requirement, and he was accidentally placed into that class. He sat facing me, but slightly to the left. At first we didn't talk to each other much, and by the end of the period we would leave the class by ourselves. The only times we talked were when this guy, that both us knew from middle school, intervened. We ended up hanging out with the same group of friends that year, because all the freshman from my middle school were pretty much bunched up together in one spot. When we first started talking, I thought he was kind of annoying because he kept doing things like poking me. He was the laid back type that likes to mess around in class to entertain himself rather than doing work, while I was more of the uptight, "nerdy" one of the pair. My initial thought of him was that he's really cute, but I would never consider dating him. In fact, at the time I happened to like a friend of his. Months go by and as we started to talk more we figured we had many things in common (including the fact that we both play MS o.o). At the end of the period, we would even wait for each other to walk out to the quad for lunch together. By December of freshman year, my feelings for his friend started to slip, and I thought more and more about how nice he was and all the times we would joke around with each other. I started to like him, but it was too late: he had just asked another girl from another school to be his girlfriend. Not wanting to break up his relationship, I continued to hang out with him casually but did not mention anything about my feelings. Come late January and my friends started to notice I had feelings for him. His friends seemed to notice his feelings for me too. They would always say things like, "You two look so cute together!". This one time he was teaching me how to tie a tie and my friends kept taking pictures of us. I knew he had a girlfriend, and I was completely devastated, but I would always tell my friends to stop joking around because he's in a relationship. February was when things really started to progress. He broke up with his girlfriend at the beginning of the month because they had grown apart. It's hard not to when you don't even go to the same school. Every time I talked to him I would literally start to feel my stomach fill up with butterflies. I had never felt this way about a guy before. Sure I liked