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thread starter Delete Jul 12 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Please help me with this I am being serious. Can someone please tell me how to really act like myself, because when I am around "certain" people I act totally different and look/seem like an annoying idiot. Since I was 13 (15 almost 16 now) I've been slowly loosing touch with who I really am and I don't like it. Is this normal, if not can you help, please?

talk2thefist 07/12/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I used to be like that, but then I found people who accept me for who I am. Don't give in to peer pressure, I've seen alot of that in elementary school, and it really put a dent in those people's lives (although they have real friends now too). So yeah you should find new friends.

bvelk 07/12/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

It's mostly self-esteem, like someone said earlier. Just ask yourself why you're acting like this, what you want to gain by acting like this, and who you really are. Questions like that, including reflection on the actions you've taken will most likely let you realise that you're doing something stupid. And realisation is the most important thing here, because then you know what you can change.

XXKKJXX 07/12/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I think its normal its probably b.c of stress or pressure or something idk but I think Im kinda going under the same thing o.O or I was lol I think its ok tht ur going under this and if u realize it u can try to change urself and there will be ppl tht will still accept u tho they mit be diff ppl its best to be urself and nobody else cuz thts just not cool XP And to act like urself, first of all brainstorm wat r u like ur values and beliefs then try to live off of tht =D

Delete 07/12/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Thanks to everybody for the help . Uhm I have all the info I need so can i close this thread or do mods have to do that? (is new)