me and my girlfriend broke up

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thread starter hosrack Nov 04 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

i don't know why really? but for some reason, she broke up with me. We been going out for couple months, and we're both juniors in highschool. It was on halloween, i was at my friend's neighborhood trick-or-treating (more like hanging out, wanted to go tot at my gf's neighborhood, but my gf said she cant tot that day), but my gf was at her home and having a family reunion dinner. When i got back from my friend's house, I tried to talk to her on AIM (earlier that day, everything was absolutely fine, PERFECTLY fine), but she just ignored me, but i know she was there...I called her later that night at 10 (she usually goes to bed at 11), and she said shes tired, shes gona sleep, and just hung up. Then the next day school starts, instead of hanging out as we usually do, she avoided me the wholeday, and when i finally see her, she said she was tired and ignored me. After school, we got home. She chatted me on AIM and said: -im sorry, but we can no longer continue. My schoolwork is stressing me, and lately my parents keep telling me not to have a bf, thus, making me very guilty. all i could say was..I understand. At first, I wasn't really sad over it. I thought we could still be friends like we use to. But.. She ignored me everyday, and we always use to hang out in between class breaks, now she completely avoids me. When she sees me in the hall, she totally ignores me. I tried to say hi to her on her fb by posting on her page, but instead, she deleted my post. Then it made me thought, was it really her schoolworks and parents? The truth is, I barely bother her, I know shes taking two AP classes at one time, so it might be difficult, so i made sure i gave her her spaces. But now, I see her hanging out with her friends in school everyday, and at home, shes playing computer games with her friends...thought she needed to study. Obviously, the reason she gave me was a lie, even all my friends said so. Perhaps something happened at her family dinner? Or maybe i did something? Or maybe shes cheating on me? (i had her fb account earlier, noticed she was increasingly talking to this guy) I try to forget her..but i see her everyday, and it just brings memories back..I miss her.

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[quote] raipikachu : hosrack First things first. Do not go to Basilmarket for relationship advice, especially break-ups. Most people here will say "I took her from you" or "Get over it, 2 BILLION PUSH UPS, NOW!" Talk to people you feel comfortable talking to. Doesn't have to be parents or even family members, talk to a really good friend, or a random bozo on the street, even. Second, it's common after a break-up for people to feel uncomfortable talking, seeing, or even being next to their partner. Give her some space and some time, let her relax. Finally, don't let this bump in Life Road stop you. You're still a junior. You have the rest of your life to live to find the right person. You can let it slow you down, we all need to go slower sometimes. But only when we stop, life is no longer worth living. "Love will always be reborn, but only if we can learn to let past loves go." [/quote] yes, but its difficult considering i see her everday. I finally got the chance to talk to her, and talked to her about it. She said she didn't ignore me (wow,wtf) and that things are abit awkward now. I asked her if she wants to still hangout from time to time, and she said: "sorry" ...right there, i just exited out of chat.

ElitistMan 11/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] WinDian : ElitistMan : Read what I wrote to the other guy, if you understand what I wrote, you will get why I posted this. [/quote] Yes dating is not love, but you still haven't really given any reasons why you think it's wrong for teenagers to love.

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raipikachu 11/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

hosrack : It's difficult, but at the end of a dark tunnel, there is always a light. Ask her again if you want to hang out after awhile, give her a month or so.

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rampage89 11/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Move on, start talking with other girls. She's not the only one out there you know.

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deathofyou 11/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

something like this happend to me. stop talking to her and trying to get her back it's most likely another guy. ignore her, start taking to another girl. find a hotter, nicer girl that you can show off in front of her. im doing the same thing right now...i begged to have her back but she refused and still said she loves me. i ignored her and now shes begging for me to hang out with her all the time. i always come up with excuses to make her mad

Kakeru 11/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

She's probably not flirting with other guys. Go take that opportunity and just flirt with all the girls you know.

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Fronz 11/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

She probably likes someone else. No girl in her teenage years is that influenced by her parents.

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EpicSpasm 11/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Women's minds are on a whole different dimension as men's, never gonna understand them. I wouldn't recommend you to keep trying (i.e. facebook messages and stuff), its only a matter of time before she gets really pissed, plus it takes a huge chunk out of your ego. Sorry it happened, but a good relationship requires dedication on both parties.

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hosrack 11/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

im not that flirty type..Im more like the shy type. I usually only talk to my really close friends. So i am abit of loner-ish. And shes making me uncomfortable..because she makes it look like nothing. shes always hanging with her friends, staying afterschool with friends, etc.

Chillionaire + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Life Lesson: You cannot forget about it, so don't even bother trying. You just move along just to make it through .

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iBlaster 11/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Dude, as I see it you're being too clingy, just forget her, move on, and make her regret ever ditching you. even if she shows any interest back, ignore her. pretty much all i've got to say

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applecross 11/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

lol whut i cant read :D

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cgkan 11/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Make her jealous and horny (ok maybe not the horny part, but make her jealous mang! Once shes jealous, go for the kill

FirezRage 11/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

instead of thinkin about it, how about u STOP thinking about it? based on what u've said i doubt things will change that much so its better to try and forget about her. sure it might take weeks, months or even more but eventually u will learn to move on. i believe that things happen for a reason, so maybe she wasn't the right girl for you. ur still a junior in high school (we dont really use the term high school here but w/e) so just live ur life.

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LegendClark 11/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

is it me or did the word hump appear numerous times?

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