I could of Gotten her.

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thread starter Herosgate Oct 28 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Most of you basilers Probably won't care for my "Bad news" but i don't really expect you to care. Maybe read my story and share your opinions about it. But beware of a wall of text. Thanks So lets start off Back in October 9th the day of Homecoming where boys ask girls maybe even girls ask boys, many decorated hallways and the gym as well. So then a week before then my friend asked her to homecoming. Lets call this girl Sara . So of course she said yes, but i didn't really care for it i mean i was happy for my friend who is actually almost like a brother to me. After a few days ive gotten news saying that my friend Didn't want to go with Sara because some girl liked him. That girl didn't like seeing him go with Sara so he dumped her, leaving her to be taken to homecoming. Now i bring you to the Day before homecoming. It was 10 o'clock at midnight as i assume, i was talking to her through facebook messaging. I asked why didn't she go with My friend. Well of course you guys know because my friend couldn't go because of the girl who liked him disliked that he was going to homecoming with her. So i asked who is she going with now? She said she was gonna go Solo. So i asked Who is she meeting with? She says "With me". At that point i was surprised. But then i she said she only wanted to go as friends, at this point i was a little disappointed. So i asked her to homecoming Through facebook. (haha laugh it up, it was 10 o'clock at midnight and it was the day before homecoming, what do you wanted me to do? Lol" So Homecoming as passed. i was thinking, that she wanted to go as friends maybe she doesn't like me.. Knowing my past with badluck on girls ive gotten rejected by all of them. So i told myself *Im done with girls, Stop going after them. Pay attention to your school work instead, Stop trying to get in a relationship." So she messaged me saying if i had a good time, as i asked her the same thing. We both had a good time actually, lots of fun. So in the hallways i usually see her and i hug her pretty much when i get the chance to. Now lets fast forward to about mm id say October 26, 2010. Now one of her friends blindly asks "Do you like Sara?" I didn't know what to say, i like her but knowing my bad luck she'd probably say no. I wanted to say yes but the words that came out of my mouth id regret forever. I said "Umm no, but i think shes cute" She walks away, and sit down at her seat. Now i bring you Today. She messaged me, we had a little talk she seemed a little angry. So when i left the chat, coming back till 9 o'clock at midnight. I go on my facebook. Only to see something that id never want to see. she said "You don't know how it feels to like someone but doesn't like you and thinks you're cute." My heart raced, i was scared. I didn't know what to do, i want to say sorry and say the truth in what im telling you basilers now. I like her, i adore her. But i was afraid to love her, i was afraid to lose her from the very moment that i ask her out. It

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AlchemicStuff 10/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Herosgate : Ive taken many chances, they haven't been really "good" [/quote] We all have. I have lots of stories that have crapped out. But that doesn't mean that I stopped taking risks. So you shouldn't either. You never know when that risk will turn out to be one of the best things that has happened to you.

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McFlurryz 10/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Wisperer : I think you can safely assume that she likes you from her comment on facebook. Actually, I don't think I can really give you better advice than copy and pasting this on a pm and sending it to her. It's a risk, but I think the chances are in your favor. [/quote] Wouldn't copy/pasting this thread make him look stupid? I mean...his asking random people on the internet for advise...

DrTumTum + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Herosgate Its win or lose, man. I say take that chance.

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Wisperer 10/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] McFlurryz : Wouldn't copy/pasting this thread make him look stupid? I mean...his asking random people on the internet for advise... [/quote] She probably asked her friend to ask him if he liked her. I don't think it would make him look stupid. I mean, insecureness in a relationship is very common. Unless if you had sure confidence in everything you did.

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Ghetto415 10/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Think about it. Not telling her your true feelings might not go so well BUT you won't have any regret. If you don't take the chance, you will be asking yourself, " I wonder what would have happened if I told her my true feelings..." for the rest of your life. But, it is your choice.

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fpsmuch + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Just tell her that you said "um no..." because you didn't know if she liked you back ==" o and apologise, it's always a good thing.

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kenmanyu 10/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Tell her you didn't want to tell her friend the truth because you wanted to say it to her in person.

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McFlurryz 10/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Wisperer : She probably asked her friend to ask him if he liked her. I don't think it would make him look stupid. I mean, insecureness in a relationship is very common. Unless if you had sure confidence in everything you did. [/quote] Well he said that he wants to look "manly" when he tells her, so yeah... I know what your trying to say though.

Herosgate 10/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

This is so frustrating..I have an excuse to say what i said though, i didn't want to tell her friend the truth but i wanted to tell her in person as well.

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McFlurryz 10/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Herosgate : This is so frustrating..I have an excuse to say what i said though, i didn't want to tell her friend the truth but i wanted to tell her in person as well. [/quote] Just talk to her in person and say "hey, im sorry about what i said. I only did that cuz i wanted to tell you in person." then tell her how you really feel.

AlchemicStuff 10/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Don't make excuses, tell her the truth.

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kenmanyu 10/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Good luck with tomorrow...

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deadlyzombie 10/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] McFlurryz : Just talk to her in person and say "hey, im sorry about what i said. I only did that cuz i wanted to tell you in person." then tell her how you really feel. [/quote] Do this and you'll profit in step 4. But seriously, there's no reason why this wouldn't work.

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Herosgate 10/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] deadlyzombie : Do this and you'll profit in step 4. But seriously, there's no reason why this wouldn't work. [/quote] How i really feel? ill probably stumble upon my words. But here's how its gonna go down. "Hey Sara, about what you said yesterday. And what your friend told you? was a lie, you see i lied because i didn't want to tell her but i wanted to tell you in person. Thing is i really like you, but the only option in my head was the friend zone. So i can hug you, touch you, see you smile everyday. I was afraid if i asked you, you'd say no, i was afraid i was going to lose you the very moment i asked you. I love you i adore you. Now i want to ask you something Will you go out with me?"

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McFlurryz 10/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Herosgate : How i really feel? ill probably stumble upon my words. But here's how its gonna go down. "Hey Sara, about what you said yesterday. And what your friend told you? was a lie, you see i lied because i didn't want to tell her but i wanted to tell you in person. Thing is i really like you, but the only option in my head was the friend zone. So i can hug you, touch you, see you smile everyday. I was afraid if i asked you, you'd say no, i was afraid i was going to lose you the very moment i asked you. I love you i adore you. Now i want to ask you something Will you go out with me?" [/quote] You might wanna take out the " hug you and touch you" part, just say "so i can be around you everyday". other than that it looks pretty good. good luck tomorrow.