I never had a girlfriend before

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thread starter UniqAssassin Oct 04 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I'm 18 years old and I never had a girlfriend before. I never kissed a girl and never made love to a woman. I had plenty of changes to have a girlfriend, but those girls were ugly and/or I just didn't like them. I know for 100% sure that I'm not homosexual. Is this weird?

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xShaunyx 10/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

No, nothing wrong with that.

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Enliight 10/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

No, don't be worried. Our newer generations are just trying to be 'older' by having bf/gf when it doesn't benefit them much.

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aznkwonboa 10/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] UniqAssassin : I'm 18 years old and I never had a girlfriend before. I never kissed a girl and never made love to a woman. I had plenty of changes to have a girlfriend, but those girls were ugly and/or I just didn't like them. I know for 100% sure that I'm not homosexual. Is this weird? [/quote] Being different in this case is better. Much better. Usually, you're just wasting your time with any relationship before you hit your twenties. You have things like education to worry about and dreams to experiment with. Also, your teenage raging hormones won't interfere with your relationships. Although I am resisting the urge of a foreveralone meme, I will applaud you for your honesty and decency.

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Enliight 10/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] aznkwonboa : Being different in this case is better. Much better. Usually, you're just wasting your time with any relationship before you hit your twenties. You have things like education to worry about and dreams to experiment with. Also, your teenage raging hormones won't interfere with your relationships. Although I am resisting the urge of a foreveralone meme, I will applaud you for your honesty and decency. [/quote] Lolforeveralonememe OT: Also, I have to admit I have had one relationship when I was 13/14, I'm 15 now LOL, and I'm going to try to wait until the moment is right to try to be in another relationship.

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AnasF 10/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

It'd be awkward if you made love to a woman before kissing her. o.o That's what I thought when I read that. :s

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lunarsun221 10/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Nah, I think it's fine. You shouldn't really be getting into serious relationships anyway at a young age.

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RenisPinkles 10/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You sir, are a loner

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topShot671 10/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Wow, Awkward...

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LoveHate + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Hmmm, I think people care too much about what society thinks, rather than listening to their own views. I haven't had a boyfriend or a girlfriend in almost a year now. Back then, I dated this hot girl because I thought it would get me attention. It did, but nothing came of it. I've kissed both girls and guys, but it's really nothing special. A while ago I almost said that having a gf/bf at this age was pointless. Well, recently I reconsidered. Having someone close to you can be nice if your friends are usually busy and you want someone who will be there to talk to you, etc. I still haven't found anyone who's even remotely close to what I'm looking for though. I guess we all have to keep looking.

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SeriousBuyer 10/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Why would it be weird?

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UniqAssassin + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

AnasF Yes, ofcourse you are right AnsF. I didn't want to say it that way. I just want to wait for the right girl, and the right moment. aznkwonboa Thank you for your post. That really helped me out, and I totally agree with you. My love will come one day. And I ain't a loner:P I have one good friend, and that's more then enough!

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PlzOPH3T 10/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You are young. Finding love is not a race. Most High School relationships either fail or result in premature adulthood, both really don't benefit you in the long run.

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ruzz14235 10/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

trust me.... You dont want a girlfriend. ALthough it is a little odd that you havnt kissed a girl.

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AnasF 10/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

UniqAssassin Lol, sorry if I seemed like a deutschbahg. Is that how you spell it? Just a random spur of the moment, rofl. Now, in relation to the topic... I've always felt that you don't need someone, or need to be looking for a girlfriend or whatever. I've never really wanted anything like that. What I do feel, however, is when I meet a perfect person, I want to get closer to them. I think that's how it should be, anyhow. Just wait for the right person then go for it. Although, I'm prepared to die alone if I can't find the one, and not care. Not sure if you are. xD

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