Would you break up with someone because of this?

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thread starter McLovin Sep 18 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

My girlfriend, and I broke up on Thursday. She broke up with me. Which wouldn't be bad, but the way she did it, and the reason irritated me. She did it over MSN messenger. I thought that was fake. I mean get some guts and do it in person. Now to the real reason of this thread. Her reason was this. Because we hang out with different crowds. I was like what? Thats a stupid reason. She wouldn't tell me the reason either. I had to find out from one of her friends. She like hangs out with the loners, and lames of the school. I hang out with like the popular kids, the jocks and such. I thought that was a stupid reason. So Basil. Would you break up with someone because of that?

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Wayf 09/18/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

She probably felt insecure or something that you didn't like her as much as you could because of her social group.

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Amazing 09/18/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Insecure maybe? I mean she's in a crowd where not many people really like them, while you're being adored by anyone below you. It's a legit reason. If you want her back, then try hanging out with her more.

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JasmineN 09/18/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Relationships at the same school are hard sometimes.

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McLovin 09/18/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Insecure huh? That would make sense actually...

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0th3r 09/18/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

She found an other dude among her social cliq that's better then you. Sorry bro.

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ho1yxxcleric 09/18/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

It actually makes sense. Jocks are compiled of people who love to bully loners and losers. She probably doesn't like your friends and fears that you will turn out to be like them.

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BoogerX 09/18/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I wouldn`t blame her.

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puzzles 09/18/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

just hang out with her more

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aaronthecow 09/18/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

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pr3stig3 09/18/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Yes, actually, I would. I require that my girlfriends get along well with my friends. There's no point if we have separate social groups, and can't do similar things together. Having mutual friends only makes things much, much easier. I know it sounds stupid, but it's a critical part to having a successful relationship.

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McLovin 09/18/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] ho1yxxcleric : It actually makes sense. Jocks are compiled of people who love to bully loners and losers. She probably doesn't like your friends and fears that you will turn out to be like them. [/quote] Honestly, I didn't even knew her friends existed. I didn't even know she existed. I just had her in a class that's the only reason I knew her. I don't bully anyone unless they irritate me and act all hard. Other then that I leave them alone. [quote] 0th3r : She found an other dude among her social cliq that's better then you. Sorry bro. [/quote] Haha highly unlikely. Pretty sure she is gonna stay single for awhile.

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skittlesmoo 09/18/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Pretty insecure, just tell her you're not like that.

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abnotsu 09/18/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

That wasn't really a stupid reason.

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McLovin 09/18/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] BoogerX : I wouldn`t blame her. [/quote] Why do you say this?

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