Most confusing girl ever =/

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thread starter kazoka122 Aug 29 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Ok, oooo boy where to begin....alright, i have this friend that i've had a crush on for like a year and a half, and pretty much imma make this as short and brif as possible cause if i say every single thing from day 1, it wont fit, heres how it goes -my best friend use to like her and i was always trying to help him out to get with her -one day he asks her out and gets rejected, he then gives me permission to get with her -first time i was with her alone, i didnt say anything (i was shy as hell) -during that time she use to like me, but considering i was shy i always thought that if i ask her she will reject me. -random friend comes and beats me to her, she ends up going out with him -20 days or so later, they break up and she goes to my house for the first time knowing that i like her this time since i admitted it when she was still going out with him. -at like 9pm she asks me that when i plan on asking her out - i say idk (that response haunts me till this day) -she leaves and a few months after that, i ask her out, she said she likes me as a brother -i get impatient of being in the brother zone...and try to get out *love war* -we stop talking for like 6 months- -the first friend that got rejected by her gets us to talk again- -i changed in terms of (honesty, no jealousy at all, and patience, also i dont like her at that point) -she gets a bf- - we start chillen alot and one day she told me that, that day i asked her out, she started likeing me.....but since i changed (due to me trying to get out the brother zone) she stopped. -we decide to call eachother twins, (bro and sis), i start likeing her again, she asks for the dark peice of my yingyang necklace, i give it to her...she still has it on till this day- she said 2 days ago that im the only boy she trusts....=/ a month before this we went to the movies and she kept pokeing my face and hitting me....not paying attention to the movie at all. i was the first boy she ever invited to her house.... she drew a picture of a heart with my name in it.... um...she met my entire family, and one time when my dad met her he was like "wow shes pretty no wonder you always been after her" in front of her, and she laughts, and apparently everytime my dad calls she tells me to say hi to him knowing very well that hes gonna talk to me about her giveing me "points" for being with her.... she feels totally comfortable being alone with me, since i wont do anything to her.... and yea...currently we're rllly close friends since after the 6 months i changed alot....but yea, u guys be the judge, personally i think i should just wait...and the thing is that she has a bf...so that confuses me to the max...oh and i left out alot of stuff..cause it'll turn into a book. =/

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faintxpirate + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

None of the above. She's keeping her options open.

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Skrato 08/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

If she has a bf, she is out of bounds.

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melonade99 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

she got like 3 bfs in less than 6 months? dang girl slow down.

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IcyyBlitz 08/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

K i have seen this story some where...uhh let me get it for you

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kazoka122 08/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] faintxpirate : None of the above. She's keeping her options open? [/quote] keeping her options open....does swicthing between likeing me and likeing me as a bro count? (she doesnt do this no more since she has no idea i like her again)

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mizark95 08/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

on the real, i dont even know where this is gonna go. this might be messed up but if you're good enough with your words she'll come running back and dump the other guy,

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faintxpirate 08/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] kazoka122 : keeping her options open....does swicthing between likeing me and likeing me as a bro count? (she doesnt do this no more since she has no idea i like her again) [/quote] Somewhat, it's obvious she likes you more than a brother, but probably just telling you that she only likes you as a brother and nothing else. She may also be trying to keep the relationship she has with her boyfriend while keeping you around.

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kazoka122 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] mizark95 : on the real, i dont even know where this is gonna go. this might be messed up but if you're good enough with your words she'll come running back and dump the other guy, [/quote] this is where i come in though, reason i dont tell her that i like her again is cause i dont want a repeat of the past and lose her as a friend, it was rlly bad 7 months ago..rly bad...i even cryed...and i also cause her to cry herself to sleep...=/, i dont even wanna remember that day also one time i held her hand (i didnt know what i was thinking) and when she went home that day, she im'ed me asking why i did that...since i wasnt shy anymore i was like "oh iguess it was a spark from when i use to like u alot, im so sorry if it made u uncomfortable"...then shes like, "oh no i felt safe and secure, its like a angel was at work that u actually did that since u never did before" confuseing much =/?

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MissVP 08/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I personally think that she's playing with you just so she can boost her ego / she won't feel as insecure. ><' Either that, or she has commitment issues.

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kazoka122 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] MissVP : I personally think that she's playing with you just so she can boost her ego / she won't feel as insecure. ><' Either that, or she has commitment issues. [/quote] thing is i know she aint playing with me cause one time my "friends" told her to be with me for 1 week and break up with me for i could be "happy" and she turned them down

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lune 08/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] melonade99 : she got like 3 bfs in less than 6 months? dang girl slow down. [/quote] if she's white then she's a white horse!

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kazoka122 08/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] lune : if she's white then she's a white horse! [/quote] she got 2 bf's in 6 months not 3, and shes alot of things

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MissVP 08/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Hmm... then I think it's like what faintxpirate said, your friend could be liking you as more than a friend, but she doesn't want to lose that close friendship she has with you if you two ever break up.

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asd123xd + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Skrato : If she has a bf, she is out of bounds. [/quote] Just because there's a goalie, doesn't mean you can't score.

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