The boy-girl thread. - BasilMarket Forum

thread starter muffmallow Aug 24 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I feel like it's about time we have another one of these Have a question you'd like to ask your basil peers? Been wanting to hear a boy or girl's perspective on something but been afraid to ask? Here's the place to do it. Don't hesitate to ask anything, just keep it appropriate please. Just so you know who you're talking to, I am an 18 year old female. Ask away, and I will try to think of some questions of my own.

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MindSpaz 08/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] RemixArtist : Whoa, rude much. I asked a question and you probably made some sort of sarcastic remark. I just wanted an answer, not a wisecrack. [/quote] It's called being honest, not rude. Get used to it, welcome to the real world where everyone is an asshole.

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NineCrimes 08/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] muffmallow : Girls. Do. Not. Like. Assholes. >.< And if they do then they're not worth going after. [/quote] Hmm I try to tell myself that, then I realize that every girl likes assholes. Ah well. I guess I'll just have to wait until they're in their mid to late 20s and their ovaries remind them that they should probably settle down.

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lTheShadower 08/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] EnterAndWin : What if you're in my situation? Put yourself in my shoes, 6'3, muscles, longer hair than most girls (yes, I take care of it). You're at a point in your life where you had your heart broken by one of your best friends who only wanted to stay friends, and you're depressed and sometimes think of suicide. Then, one day, you meet an amazing and beautiful girl who ACTUALLY likes you for who you are. The only problem? You live 600 miles away from each other. As time passes and you get to know each other, you fall in love, until suddenly, the dreamlike life ends, and she stops loving you like she used to. Then people tell you she had a boyfriend the whole time, and this kid is a 5'5 d-bag who is rude and inconsiderate, the type of guy who you just want to beat his face in. Then one day, you're in her area and she doesn't even want to see you, then she basically says she was told you were her "cousin" because she happened to be a relative of a close friend of your father, and that her family shamed her out of loving you. So after months of leading you to believe she really loved you, she leaves you shattered in a million pieces and refuses to even talk to you anymore. What would you do? [/quote] Get over her. She lied to you. Shes not worth it.

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GizzyJones 08/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] EnterAndWin : What if you're in my situation? Put yourself in my shoes, 6'3, muscles, longer hair than most girls (yes, I take care of it). You're at a point in your life where you had your heart broken by one of your best friends who only wanted to stay friends, and you're depressed and sometimes think of suicide. Then, one day, you meet an amazing and beautiful girl who ACTUALLY likes you for who you are. The only problem? You live 600 miles away from each other. As time passes and you get to know each other, you fall in love, until suddenly, the dreamlike life ends, and she stops loving you like she used to. Then people tell you she had a boyfriend the whole time, and this kid is a 5'5 d-bag who is rude and inconsiderate, the type of guy who you just want to beat his face in. Then one day, you're in her area and she doesn't even want to see you, then she basically says she was told you were her "cousin" because she happened to be a relative of a close friend of your father, and that her family shamed her out of loving you. So after months of leading you to believe she really loved you, she leaves you shattered in a million pieces and refuses to even talk to you anymore. What would you do? [/quote] Tell her cousins can still get married.

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muffmallow 08/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

EnterAndWin : Basically what lTheShadower said. Heal till you can be happy on your own and stop looking for love (I guarantee it'll come to you when you stop looking)

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Dorks 08/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

SirCandyCane Anything that doesn't involve your pants to your knees...especially when there's a belt too. TheDeathSong It probably means the guy just wants to get some. EnterAndWin Regret and avoid.

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xSinAznHoIyx 08/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] muffmallow : Omegathorion yeah, people think like that, but it depends on the person... boys think like that too. I personally believe that nobody should hit anybody >.< IlolATnoONE I've noticed that boys tend to bottle it a little bit when around girls... but things slip :P @EnterAndWin A mixture of fun and affection is best... if you make it too easy to get access then some girls might get bored. Girls will realize that they have you wrapped around their finger and they know that they don't even have to try to keep you strung. Boys do the same to girls though. But seriously nobody likes being treated poorly o-O Another difference might be confidence? Eh. Like I said nobody likes to be treated like crap xP [/quote] at last comment, listen to Eminem Ft. Rihanna - Love the way you Lie

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lTheShadower 08/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] NineCrimes : Hmm I try to tell myself that, then I realize that every girl likes assholes. Ah well. I guess I'll just have to wait until they're in their mid to late 20s and their ovaries remind them that they should probably settle down. [/quote] I find that it depends on the girl. The problem is that the ones that like assholes are usually the hottest.

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Vengeance 08/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] SirCandyCane : what do girls like guys to wear? [/quote] Not skinnies, that's for sure. Harharhar.

Ztarfish 08/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

so gurls, on a scale from unforgettable to undeniable, how would you rate california boyz?

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Dorks 08/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Ztarfish : so gurls, on a scale from unforgettable to undeniable, how would you rate california boyz? [/quote] I go to school in San Francisco. I have not seen much good-looking guys.

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lTheShadower 08/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Ztarfish : so gurls, on a scale from unforgettable to undeniable, how would you rate california boyz? [/quote] do they melt your popsicle?

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NineCrimes 08/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] lTheShadower : I find that it depends on the girl. The problem is that the ones that like assholes are usually the hottest. [/quote] I knoooooow. It's so awful. enterandwin You move on because she's obviously a dumb skank.

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dojokillu 08/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

-Double standard explanation- guys are called pimps if they get alot of girls girls are called whores if they get a lot of guys this is because: a key that can open a lot of locks is called a master key. a lock that can be opened by a lot of keys is a crappy lock.

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Vengeance 08/24/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] dojokillu : -Double standard explanation- guys are called pimps if they get alot of girls girls are called whores if they get a lot of guys this is because: a key that can open a lot of locks is called a master key. a lock that can be opened by a lot of keys is a crappy lock. [/quote] Metaphor used too much~