Should I Keep This Friend or Not?

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thread starter lilcellion Aug 01 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well, I've known this my friend for a long time, maybe six or seven years. He used to live in the same state as me, but he's moved a lot, but he visits once or twice a year, and I always messaged him/talked to him on MS. He was here where I live, maybe a week ago, and I didn't like his attitude this time. He's always lied and BSed everyone about everything, and tried to make people jealous, but I always knew that, and I didn't mind it. But this time, he came over to my house, and spent more time talking on Skype than to me, and I was pretty pissed at that, it was VERY rude... He's not a very "special" person as it is, and my friendship with him is hanging on a thread. Like I said, he lies and TRIES (emphasis or tries, since it doesn't work) to make people jealous, while being self-centered (he's an only child), complaining often, with a piss-poor attitude -_- So yeah, all of these behaviors of his got WORSE this time when he came over, and I think I've had it with him.... So what do you think? Should I be friends with him? Honestly, everything I'm saying about him is true -_- And the only thing we probably have in common is that we both play MS. Other than that, all he does is brag. So keep him as a friend? Or not? Note: If you see this Navid, maybe you should change your attitude >.>

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CygnusSyd 08/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

How old is he

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lilcellion 08/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

cygnussyd he's a bit older than me, he's 16 o-o

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deerC 08/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Tell Navid that most people don't like that when he does that, maybe that'll change his mind.

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BerriesV 08/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I would confront him about the problem. Your decision would be much easier after that conversation.

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lilcellion 08/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

deerC well the thing is, if you tell him something he doesn't want here, he'll be like what? then i'll repeat, he'll say ok, and then immediately switch the subject and act like nothing happened >.> i've tried telling him before in ways :/

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iCastKnives 08/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

If you think he's a real B@!$#, then explain to him that since he visited, he shouldn't be on Skype because you can do that at home. Instead, tell him to enjoy his vacation. Now if he totally ignores you and doesn't care, then just kick him out of your house. If he does those following things, he isn't your friend. That isn't what friends would do.

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nightstrikez 08/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

you could try asking him why he acts this way, maybe moving so much pisses him off or something

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lilcellion 08/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

icastknives lolol i agree with you :P but he's a mama's boy too, and his mom and my mom are somewhat friends, so all he'd do is cry to mommy :/ and then my mom would go complain or whatever. idk 100% if my mom actually likes his mom though o.o

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PrePreparation 08/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I have a friend like this, I hate people that lie without a good reason. I mean if you lied about your terminal illness for the sake of your friends so they didn't worry about you, thats pretty bad-ass. But when someone lies about their godly 30 dex overall..

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iPwnRandy 08/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Haha i know what you mean.... we have a friend exactly like that i swear... and the sad part? he's 16 too... he always lies BS's back stabbed us..... what we did to him recently was just told him to Eff Off =.=...... because none of his friends liked him anymore...... honestly..... just don't be friends with him your better off without a friend like him......

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sha969696 08/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Shoot him. Guns solve all the problems.

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cakeonastick 08/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

If you have to question your friendship, it's better off dead.

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Shadoxblade 08/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I once had a friend like this. Just Slap him and everything will be OK.

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lilcellion 08/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

nightstrikez well the thing is, if he moves from the usa to sweden, he'll brag to all his swedish friends about how good america is, and then brag to his amercian friend about how good sweden is. every store we went to with him, he ALWAYS bragged about sweden to the people working there! it's sad.... sorry, that wasn't relevant to what you said o_o prepreparation lolol yeah, he'd lie about a 30 dex overall :/ he lies about how much he buys everything for also. how many times can you make a godly sale/buy?

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