You've Been Burned.

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thread starter HysteriaBorn Jul 29 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

What up guys. I recently decided to burn bridges with one of my friends and she has no idea why and I have no intentions of telling her. I didn't want to do it, but I decided it was for the greater good. When have you had to have burned bridges with someone? PS: If you don't know what burning bridges means, it is when you decide to altogether stop talking to someone and abandon any means of contact with her. (Delete facebook, don't reply on msn, don't reply to texts etc.)

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uncleden95 07/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I did yesterday with my friend. Lols what a coincidence.

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Coolvuy123 07/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

y do u wanna burn brigdes? its only gonna be worse for u if you dont atleast tell her why

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RemixArtist 07/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Arson is illegal.

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HysteriaBorn 07/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Coolvuy123 : y do u wanna burn brigdes? its only gonna be worse for u if you dont atleast tell her why [/quote] I fell in love with her, I didn't like what it was doing to me. Then she tells me she wants to tap some other guy. It was a heat of the moment decision but, she won't know, even if it does suck. I feel stupid doing it but I have to.

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bossie4ever 07/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] HysteriaBorn : I fell in love with her, I didn't like what it was doing to me. Then she tells me she wants to tap some other guy. It was a heat of the moment decision but, she won't know, even if it does suck. I feel stupid doing it but I have to. [/quote] I've been in the exact same position. Sorry to tell you but chances are you guys are gonna talk again.

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OhKristi + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I think I've had to "burn bridges" with a great majority of my good friends (if not all). :c

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AuNaturale 07/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] HysteriaBorn : I fell in love with her, I didn't like what it was doing to me. Then she tells me she wants to tap some other guy. It was a heat of the moment decision but, she won't know, even if it does suck. I feel stupid doing it but I have to. [/quote] Atleast tell her first. I was in this position once (I was the one being burned, ) it hurt, but what hurt even more was not even being told a reason why.

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HysteriaBorn 07/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] bossie4ever : I've been in the exact same position. Sorry to tell you but chances are you guys are gonna talk again. [/quote] I'm a professional, it won't happen.

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Novelist 07/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

One of my friends did it to me, because of her religion. So stupid. Other than that, I think I tend to ignite small fires that burn bridges, by accident.

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HysteriaBorn 07/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] AuNaturale : Atleast tell her first. I was in this position once (I was the one being burned, ) it hurt, but what hurt even more was not even being told a reason why. [/quote] Man... now I feel worse.

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thrasher1250 07/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Tell her why you have to do it. It is definately best to at least tell her why you cannot talk to her. Just explain you have feelings for her and you need to get rid of them.

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HysteriaBorn 07/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] thrasher1250 : Tell her why you have to do it. It is definately best to at least tell her why you cannot talk to her. Just explain you have feelings for her and you need to get rid of them. [/quote] Bridge has been burnt. No more talking or communications of any type.

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kcwt 07/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] RemixArtist : Arson is illegal. [/quote] Indeed. Oh, is that what you meant....I'm no expert at these things but I never want to just 'burn the bridge' between a friend, but they offended you (or w/e) so, yea...I guess you have a reason? Really, IDK

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AngelxHoly 07/29/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] OhKristi : I think I've had to "burn bridges" with a great majority of my good friends (if not all). :c [/quote] Just like me. :c But I've found better friends in their places. True friends.

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