What would you do in THIS scenario? ._.

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thread starter Exposure Jul 09 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

so you're in a relationship with this nice guy/girl they're really sweet, but clingy . as in, calling EVERY so hours, texting you every minute even when you DONT return their texts. Also you plan on moving in with them but as time progresses you learn they have NO job experience, NO car, NO college education. and you only stick with them because they're nice or really sweet, even though they'd pretty much just be a burden with a pretty face. advice even though it's OBVIOUS ? Thanks SO much in advance. EDIT: he/she has been told already that say I, needed space and it lasted like a DAY. then he/she became clingy all over again as if the talk did not happen at all. ;_;

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ashesofasoul 07/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You stay with her and drift off into your own little world detached from reality

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Exposure + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] BeanerPride : Depends on how clingy. Is it because they're lonely, or? If it's just because they like you a lot then I'd stick with them. Also for the job I'd just help them find work. It varies per person, ya know. Some people would be able to see that girl as the girl they'd want to marry, have a kid with them then let them be a full time mom. Some, like I, would help them be able to find work. If they just keep quitting everything and I can't picture myself marrying the person then I'd dump them. [/quote] i understand what you mean but, what if they seem like the person who wouldnt amount to anything? ;_; above that is NO way to live. :l

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Deciduous 07/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well I'd try pushing them out into the world so they could possibly gain those things they lack, but if that doesn't pan out quick, I don't think I could stand being with them. I'm not really a sucker for clingy losers, more people who are actually independent like me. :/

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GarretReborn 07/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

funny, i had a conversation about this with narcissus a week a few weeks ago. ot: i would dump them

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takutoCAT 07/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I would fake my death.

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Exposure 07/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

thanks for your input, im just trying to open a CERTAIN someone's eyes to this.

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NoCookieforYou + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You could simply tell her to stop being so clingy? See how that goes. If she truly likes yooh. Tell her you can't take her being like this. Let her know she needs to start doing better in life and not to be so clingy.

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PaperLemon 07/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You obviously can't see yourself with this person for a long time without feeling trapped. You feel trapped. You need to get out of the situation, regardless of how they'll decide to deal with it. Dump them.

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Sekn 07/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Hit it then quit it obviously. OT: I'd fake my death and change my name to Bob Smith.

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Exposure 07/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

sekn oh what LOVELY advice, AND name.

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IhazBurgar 07/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I just hope you realize THERS NO TXT MSG BRAKEUPS

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RemixArtist 07/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I'd stay with them. I'm pretty used to clingy people.

Exposure 07/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] IhazBurgar : I just hope you realize THERS NO TXT MSG BRAKEUPS [/quote] thass easier than in persin brakeupz isso complicated o.e. lmao i kid.

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NubWithPie 07/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

This sounds sort of like my parents. They arent extremely clingy but id say my mom gets about 5 calls a day from my dad. My dad just barely passes all of his classes in high school and haznt gone to college. He's a horrible person and i hate to admit that i have his genes. My mom could have done much better.

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DemonsBow 07/09/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

does she put out? if not then dump her @ss!

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