Girls are so confusing

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thread starter luffyrubber Jul 02 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I am just totally confused right now when it comes to girls. Like they are so complex. Here's the story: A couple months ago, I went out on 2 dates with my friend Kathy. So fast forward to June and she said she just wanted to be friends. We've become best friends. I've accepted the fact that she just wants to be friends but I haven't quite moved on. So about a few days ago, me and Kathy were in the pool with some friends. We were sitting on the side of the pool. I don't know why but she moved closer and was close to my chest area. I said that it was pretty chilly out here and she starts rubbing my body. She says so it keeps me warm. Not gonna lie, it was a huge turn on. Afterwards we ended up cuddling and enjoying the scenery. I started rubbing her legs and she didn't stop me until she got embarrassed that she didn't shave. Me putting my arm over her and cuddling was a reflex. Now here's the confusing part. I have no idea what I should do. She said she wanted to be just friends with me 2 weeks ago and now she's here cuddling with me. I just don't understand. I don't want to push my luck anymore because I feel that if I do, I will end up being too persistent and losing her. Someone help me comprehend this please.

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Regulus133 07/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] panjoy : See "undeniable proof". [/quote] Maybe if we stopped perpetuating these stereotypes through advice columns, TV shows, magazines, and pretty much every form of media, we wouldn't have to deal with quite so many problems of communication. What I meant in my first post was: there has to be a willingness to communicate on both sides to get anywhere. Sometimes it takes being blunt--confrontation--to bypass another person's communication barriers. When even that fails, I just give up. I don't tend to waste my time on brats who can't or refuse to voice their thoughts but expect everyone else to magically know what they are. If more people simply refused to play that childish game, don't you think others would be forced to change their ways?

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higgi0 07/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Make a move? Worst case scenario: She does not touch your genitals.

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xSkyDragonXs 07/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Girlfriend....friend... The only difference is the fact that the word 'Girl' is there.

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Languidness 07/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Friends with benefits dur.

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MadC0wDi53aS3 07/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Sleepyx714 : But they are so wrong guys are extremely easy to understand heres a video to prove my point: He speaks the truth [/quote] HAHAHHAHA LOL "If it looks like a duck, if it walks like a duck, and if it quacks like a duck, it's probably a dirty boy." man this made my day

Herosgate + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

obviously she is showing signs of interest i guess. Ask her if she still wants to date or stay as friends OR she's playing to hard to get

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Guardian 07/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

She misses you bro. What she said 2weeks might not exactly show how she feels now. Maybe she didn't say anything to you know because if she'd brought it up, it would've ended the cuddling moment. Obviously she was enjoying too if she didn't stop you. :P

KradiaSniper 07/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Ok easy if she does this atleast 2 more times go in for a kiss and if she lets you your in

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iSmashBugs 07/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

talk to her, its the best way to get over it. cuddling could main over a billion words in the universe, so TALK TO HER. and listen more than you speak.

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InBrunei 07/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Ask her, then yourself, "Where are we in our relationship right now? Friends, BFFs, etc.?"

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luffyrubber 07/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Alright, thanks everyone. I'll probably just wait and see what happens

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Aysur 07/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

From your little story it seems that she likes you too but...maybe scared of getting hurt...I don't know.

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Horizon 07/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I think she didnt really know how to feel. Maybe something was going on with her private life. I started rubbing her legs and she didn't stop me until she got embarrassed that she didn't shave. ROFLLMAO

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Fireless 07/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Yo chill dawg. All i have to say.

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HansJuneby 07/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well from my experience I would recommend you NOT to push things too quickly, by the way she's acting it looks like she wants something more than friendship. It could be a relationship or it could be just fun, just follow the game and try to make a move when you feel like it's the right moment. Good luck ;)

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