Help Please with this girl:(

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thread starter Travis Jul 01 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

So yesterday this girl in my guild asked anyone if they could get her pots, I said ok and got her some. After she whispered me and asked if I had skype. I said ya thinking she just wanted to talk for a little. We ended up talking for like 8 hours... no joke... She got my number from my skype I think, and now shes texting me too. She keeps on hinting to me that she wants me to come visit her IRL (shes 2 states over) and shes like 3 years older than me. But it is getting so annoying. I woke up today, opened my laptop and literally 15 seconds later, she sent me a message "Call me xD" so now we are talking again, Im surprised she doesnt hear me typing all this. What do I do though... shes in my guild, she has my number, and she always asks me to go on skype. and now she just asked me "did u wake up this morning like, "aw I miss ______" cuz I was like "aw I miss travissss"" oh my god... and I cant leave the guild, I have been with them for like 3 years.

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Travis 07/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] 6Fox : lmao that sucks... try blocking her on skype? [/quote] shes still in my guild tho...

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bluenight1 07/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

make up excuses like "i'm training or merching

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hispanicheat 07/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Tell her straight up that you dont feel like talking to her anyways you just met her its not like your going to break a bond that you two have had for many years

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AeroMasta 07/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Ha! That's what you get for being nice! JK. Just tell her you're too busy to talk, and if she asks why then... well you're on your own for that one.

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doodorz 07/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Tell her to get a life. And I agree with Aero.

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redcard13 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Prove yourself in the guild, enough to become a Jr Master, then kick her ass outta there. Btw, which guild is so awesome that you can't leave it? jw.

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bomber133 07/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Tell her to back off

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imshocute + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

tell her you have a gf in real life who is not happy with all the txting and phone calls. that should do the trick ;]

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Travis + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

^She already asked if I did yesterday :/ I said "not at the moment" lmao how ironic... we are actually talking about how theres this guy in real life, who wont leave her alone. And how if anyone was annoyed by her, she would want them to tell her... oh my god lmao

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AeroMasta 07/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You should have said that she was annoying you when she offered, but in a joking manner. She probably would have got the message.

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BLackMarbLe 07/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

If she doesn't know your address, you're fine. Just ignore her whenever she calls or tries to message you, pretend to be afk. Eventually she'll get bored and back off...hopefully.

Dpwarrior30 07/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Go to your phone company and see if they can block her from calling you. I was about to say "Quit the guild" but I read your last sentence so yeah.. Also, make a new Skype.

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larryd23 07/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

It sounds like you have dug quite a hole for yourself. In this case, I think that honesty may be the best policy. I would tell her that you made a mistake giving her your Skype number. That you have a policy of not mixing real life with cyber life, which regretably you didn't follow in this case. Tell her that you hope she will continue to be your friend in game but you can no longer continue to interact with her irl. She will either accept this or not, but don't be surprised if she becomes real unhappy with you.

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tomeshed12 07/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Just tell her you don't want to talk she'll get the messege over time. And read my post on your leech addict thread!

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