So theres this girl

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thread starter IsNikkoThere Jun 02 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

No , this isn't one of those "I really like her roflmao" kind of thing. You see basil, At 21 years old, finished college and currently looking for a as a Medical Assistant [ Nurse lol ] i don't know if I'm ready to umm... Propose. Yes, I want to marry this girl. I thought i'd post it here on basil just to see what replies and advice i'd get, knowing that the majority of the population on this forum is under 21. So help me out guys; how would you do it? also, dont mind my current character (Female Brawler) Thats my basil mule :D

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begrma 06/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

21 is a bit young to marry.

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DarkZaki 06/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] begrma : 21 is a bit young to marry. [/quote] Not really tons of people already have a couple of kids by then. If you have to ask an online community if you should or not you probably aren't ready. When you are ready you will know without a doubt that this is what you want to do.

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IsNikkoThere 06/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Not when you've been with the girl since 8th grade. I'm just shaking in my boot cause I watched Big fish, and the quote was "Some times the only way to catch a woman is to offer her a wedding ring" and iunno it stirred me up and ...BAAAA

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DarkZaki 06/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] IsNikkoThere : Not when you've been with the girl since 8th grade. I'm just shaking in my boot cause I watched Big fish, and the quote was "Some times the only way to catch a woman is to offer her a wedding ring" and iunno it stirred me up and ...BAAAA [/quote] Then there is your answer. If you feel its right then do it.

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brokeh 06/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

uhh, walk with her on the beach (if there is any, idk) then take her to the spa. or w/e then take her to her favourite restaurant. and ask her when ur getting desert. just asked my younger sister. she's more romantic and girlier then me. and more grownup-ier btw, she's 18, im 21 and eww.. nurse. (sorry) i hate needles sooo much. i'd rather jump of a building then to get a shot

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zezazi 06/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

As everyone says.. You only live once!

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chocoexplosion 06/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I wouldn't do it yet. Well I guess it really does depend on your situation. But there is no need to rush the process. You'll know when the time is right. I don't really see any advantages in being married either. There are other ways to show that you care for her than going all out. Focus on your career first!

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RoziPoof + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

If you really expect that Basil community will help you out (Considering most of us don't even know you), then I don't think you're ready to propose to her. Marriage is serious. It's not something you consult about on the net. Especially with people that you don't even know.

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hoopla123 06/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Don't do it, cuz I think your rushing it a bit. I know a couple that was together since grade 9 and they divorced later on. I believe they kind of rushed it and their minds changed as they grew older.

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Blamer 06/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] zezazi : As everyone says.. You only live once! [/quote] like they/you know...

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IsNikkoThere 06/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I know its serious and i've consulted my counselors, my best friend and my parents, i just so happen to be lazing around on my balcony with my laptop and a beer and the urge to know what basil thinks

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dappersnake 06/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

well if you do it now you could be divorced in as much as 5 years and still be young enough to try again. That's really the best I could hope for you.

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gmharri 06/02/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] IsNikkoThere : I know its serious and i've consulted my counselors, my best friend and my parents, i just so happen to be lazing around on my balcony with my laptop and a beer and the urge to know what basil thinks [/quote] If you have the time to laze around your balcony with a beer, you have time to offer to take her to have a meal (or whatever she/you likes doing), if you don't someone else will, would you rather be shot down, or not even have the chance to say anything to her because she's already with someone else?

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IsNikkoThere + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] dappersnake : well if you do it now you could be divorced in as much as 5 years and still be young enough to try again. That's really the best I could hope for you. [/quote] Congratulations on making my day a little brighter by amusing me. @ Ignition That'd be cool and all, if , you know, she wasn't at work.

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