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thread starter chillhill789 May 30 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I like a girl but she's one of my best friends. Can someone tell me the cons and pros of this?

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Corbenik 05/30/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Weigh the costs of losing her friendship (things being awkward, or a breakup, seeing her with another guy) and the benefits of being her boyfriend. Whichever wins out is the answer.

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Sentiment 05/30/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Go for it or cut ties with the person forever if you can't help your feelings.

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mike3110 05/30/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

pros, there are no cons. cons, there are no pros.

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skittlesmoo 05/30/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You have a 50/50 chance.

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NoobCake 05/30/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Pros: She says yes, you get to be together for a while (5months+?), you get to do the fun stuff together =D Cons: ex-best friend, awkward conversations, avoiding each other

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chillhill789 05/30/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] mike3110 : pros, there are no cons. cons, there are no pros. [/quote] Smart Answer. The bad thing is my friend likes her as well...

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dragon2923 05/30/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] chillhill789 : Smart Answer. The bad thing is my friend likes her as well... [/quote] Just stay best friend with her. I've been in this situation before, I actually got out with my ex-best friend and now , conversation are awkward, i get jealous when i see that person with another person.. It just ruins everything.

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chillhill789 05/30/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Aight. Time for feelings to go away :D. Takes pretty long ;-;

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mike3110 05/30/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] dragon2923 : Just stay best friend with her. I've been in this situation before, I actually got out with my ex-best friend and now , conversation are awkward, i get jealous when i see that person with another person.. It just ruins everything. [/quote] This. Unless for certain you know she is the girl you want to be with and she feels the same. All your most likely doing is saying goodbye to your friendship with her.

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RaZoN 05/30/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Con - Once you break up, you really much won't be friends anymore. Personal Experience.

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