My best friend told me she liked my crush of about a year.

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thread starter Nimbus May 23 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

She just told me last night that she liked him too a little since Wednesday. She then started crying because she felt so bad, so guilty. I told her it's okay, that it'll be fine. I told her she can have him. The thing is, she likes my cousin too. She doesn't know what to do, who to pick. I don't want my cousin's feelings to be hurt either. I just want her to be happy, y'know? Out of all the people, I never knew this would happen to me. But it's okay, as long as she's happy, I am. Oh yeah, and my crush, let's just call him Kevin and let's call my best friend Amanda. Kevin likes Amanda too. So now I'm gonna try to completely get over Kevin. I've probably been hurting Amanda when I told her so much about how I like Kevin so much. Sigh, what to do... Edit: yesterday I told him I used to like him for a long time, but that I didn't know. I told him before Amanda told me all this. Is it possible he did like me, and is trying to move on since I told him I didn't like him? Editedit: I forgot to mention that Kevin's best friend is Amanda's ex. They were dating for a year.

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computereasy 05/23/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Umm.. Did you know the sea is full of fish? No but seriously.. like 90% of undiscovered species are in the sea. c:

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tailedfox13 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I'm so sorry... move on. lol

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Nimbus 05/23/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

@computereasy Yeah, I know. But...ugh I just don't know. I feel so empty right now. @tailedfox13 I'm trying. But everytime he talks to me, I can't help it.

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Elite00 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Just leave the cousin out of this. its better to eliminate the possible chance of being related in the future.

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salutorious 05/23/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

why should you change for her and like feel bad about it you have expressed that you liked him just see which one he likes and be ok with the answer best most mature solution... or do a sitcom thing and both date him at the same time :D

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tailedfox13 05/23/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Nimbus : @computereasy Yeah, I know. But...ugh I just don't know. I feel so empty right now. @tailedfox13 I'm trying. But everytime he talks to me, I can't help it. [/quote] I understand... I still like this girl.. I still have a crush on her, but we don't even live close to each other. We went out for like 2 weeks around 2 years ago.... but then I had to move while we were still going out. We didn't break up yet, but i heard from a friend that she is going out with another guy. I still like her though. :[ Because of her, I don't like anyone else right now.

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mycuden 05/23/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Bros Before hoes. So you should maybe let amanda have Kevin & you move on, if it still makes you happy.

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Nimbus 05/23/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] salutorious : why should you change for her and like feel bad about it you have expressed that you liked him just see which one he likes and be ok with the answer best most mature solution... or do a sitcom thing and both date him at the same time :D [/quote] I'll let her have him if it what makes them happy. He likes her btw. She likes him a little.

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computereasy 05/23/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Aaahh I was trying to be funny. ^^ But yeah seriously, I remember being in LOVE with this girl. Not just a crush. Like actual LOVE. We dated and it lasted about 8 months. I realized my affection for her had grown to love after about 5 months. I felt like we would be together forever... Then disaster happened. And now, after about 2 years, I can't remember what it felt like to be in love with her. What I'm saying is, with time you'll heal. You'll look back and say to yourself, "How did I fall for someone like that?"

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Nimbus 05/23/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] computereasy : Aaahh I was trying to be funny. ^^ But yeah seriously, I remember being in LOVE with this girl. Not just a crush. Like actual LOVE. We dated and it lasted about 8 months. I realized my affection for her had grown to love after about 5 months. I felt like we would be together forever... Then disaster happened. And now, after about 2 years, I can't remember what it felt like to be in love with her. What I'm saying is, with time you'll heal. You'll look back and say to yourself, "How did I fall for someone like that?" [/quote] I don't know what love is. Too early for me to find my love I bet. I like him a lot, but I don't LOVE him.

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lanstrange 05/23/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

It's good you're being so selfless in this situation but. What about your love too? You probably did the best thing but still :c We're here for you. Virtually.

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computereasy 05/23/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Exactly; wait until you find that perfect someone. Then you won't even remember your feelings for this crush.

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Nimbus 05/23/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

@IanStrage Haha thank you @computereasy It's hard to get over someone you really liked for a year Dx Well I'm going to a different highschool as he is in September, so I probably can get over him. Highschool=lots of guys..mhm.. jk haha

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Sheikox 05/23/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Hahaha same thing happened to me except my friend didn't like my cousin just my crush and he didn't even tell me he liked her. Last year, on the day of my birthday, he asked her to be her gf. around 4 months later they break up. This year, same thing, he asked her to be his gf, on my birthday again. WTF. eff life, Nimbus. You and me are awesome. We have been through crappy situations and still made it through. Some day, your crush and mine will realize how much of a great catch we were, and are going to regret it.

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