am i just a friend or something more?

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thread starter jvong8389 May 06 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

a girl i like in my auto class follows me around lab to get tools instead of working on the car. i'm apparently the only guy she trusts, she has a bf out of state, she went out to go eat pho with me and is down to go to the mall next week. we have a whole lot in common like the way we were brought up, views on life, music, and a whole lot of other stuff. we share personal information to each other. like today she was asking where i was because she was lonely and stuff cause i had errands to run before class started. am i just a good friend or something more? btw i'm the nice guy and i really want to be with her but don't want to break up her relationship of almost 2 years. if you want more info let me know. thanks

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pigmanbear 05/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

you know the answer

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Humanmango 05/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You are in the most dreaded friend zone. Such a pity you needed to be told directly.

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SasukeIIV 05/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Probably the closest thing to a BF since hers is out of state.

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LogicLord 05/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Humanmango : You are in the most dreaded friend zone. Such a pity you needed to be told directly. [/quote] Nah, he's the saw that breaks her wood. OP: You currently dominating her bf, she likes you for sure.

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sarangbi 05/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Maybe she thinks your gay

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dimo 05/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

How about you ask her instead of us? Every girl is different, hence there is no generic answer or solution.

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jvong8389 05/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

@humanmango i've been with only one girl my entire life so i'm not so experienced with the ladies @saranbi no she knows i'm straight as a straight man can be @dimo i'm just worried that it may affect our friendship and make things awkward

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LogicLord 05/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

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sarangbi 05/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] jvong8389 : @humanmango i've been with only one girl my entire life so i'm not so experienced with the ladies @saranbi no she knows i'm straight as a straight man can be @dimo i'm just worried that it may affect our friendship and make things awkward [/quote] Ahh okay. Then i think you should talk to her about it. And its better it be awkward then to never know at all right? What're you gonna do? Keep liking her and do nothing? The time is now. Literally. Go now.

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libtech08 05/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

i was in a similar thing. i let it be. and i regret it everyday of my life. option a: pretty fast/aggressive 1. go about the week as you normally do. 2. when your at the mall next week try holding her hand. 3. if she does, then at the end of the day, when u take her home go half way to the kiss. DO NOT GO ALL THE WAY 4. if she pulls back then shes not ready/interested. 5. if she goes for it then your home free buddy. be sure to keep your eyes locked on hers option b: slow and steady over time move away from being just friends. 1. invite her to your house for dinner with the fam. 2. invite her to do one of your hobbies after school. 3. ask her if she wants to hang out with her friends with you 4. the rest is up to you

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mippon 05/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

girl in autoshop? :O hawwt :>

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jvong8389 05/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

true, i'm thinking about using a wingman to help or waiting for the right time

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ShintaRx 05/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] jvong8389 : @humanmango i've been with only one girl my entire life so i'm not so experienced with the ladies @saranbi no she knows i'm straight as a straight man can be @dimo i'm just worried that it may affect our friendship and make things awkward [/quote] What you should do is ask her about her bf. Ask if she really loves him, or if the distance is pushing her away. If she shows signs that the relationship is weak, then you can ask her how she feels about you. If she shows true love for him, you are in the FRIENNNNNNND ZOOOOOONEEEEE.

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jvong8389 05/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

they're having problems. he thinks she's cheating when she's not. he breaks up with her than gets back together. just in the last 2 weeks they broke up and got back together

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