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thread starter Naruachi May 04 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

When there's a girl you want to talk to but your too shy to tell them you want to get to know them out of fear of sounding creepy?

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MrPineapple + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You get rid of the fear. Confident, cool and collective is key. There's never anything wrong with just saying "hey, I like you and want to get to know you better".

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Daysiie 05/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] MrPineapple : You get rid of the fear. Confident, cool and collective is key. There's never anything wrong with just saying "hey, I like you and want to get to know you better ". [/quote] ...i would just stick to 'hey' at first, the end part is a little creepy

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MrPineapple 05/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Daysiie : ...i would just stick to 'hey' at first, the end part is a little creepy [/quote] Oh right, I'm sure things work differently between tweens and adults. In that case, slip her a note saying "Do you want to talk to me?" and put check boxes with the options 'yes', 'no' and 'maybe'. When it comes down to it just be honest. If you want to talk to her, talk to her. Ask questions; about her day, her likes, anything without getting intrusive or invasive.

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Naruachi 05/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I made this because I actually have this fear

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MrPineapple 05/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Naruachi : I made this because I actually have this fear [/quote] Everyone has this fear at some point in their lives. Eventually you get over the 'what if's' and the fear of rejection and be confident in yourself that even if this person doesn't go for you, or even if you screw things up, it won't be the last girl and it won't ruin your life. The only thing you can do is be yourself and don't sit back and worry while the opportunity passes you by.

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miguelangel3 05/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I have the same issue you do. I like this girl like A LOT from how I've evaluated her, but the way I look at it, it seems like she never notices me cuz' she talks to everyone else in class except me. And no, I'm not ugly and I do got friends. I feel very depressed though when I think of it and it makes me want to break into shreds ):

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MrPineapple 05/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] miguelangel3 : I have the same issue you do. I like this girl like A LOT from how I've evaluated her, but the way I look at it, it seems like she never notices me cuz' she talks to everyone else in class except me. And no, I'm not ugly and I do got friends. I feel very depressed though when I think of it and it makes me want to break into shreds ): [/quote] This may amaze you but a lot of girls are shy too. Just because she may talk a lot with the people she knows doesn't mean she doesn't get uncomfortable around those she doesn't as well. I'm sure the more you talk to her the more she'll open up to you too. Wow, why am I going all Dr.Phil here =/

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foxxman301 05/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] miguelangel3 : I have the same issue you do. I like this girl like A LOT from how I've evaluated her, but the way I look at it, it seems like she never notices me cuz' she talks to everyone else in class except me. And no, I'm not ugly and I do got friends. I feel very depressed though when I think of it and it makes me want to break into shreds ): [/quote] Hey don't sweat it. This is kinda like what I feel, except. Without the part as she ever notices me. xD

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Beggy + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Lol, evaluated. If there's anything I've learnt from years of seclusion it's that things don't get done unless you do them. Fear shouldn't even be a factor in this. You sound like you're in high school, many more chances are coming but only if you search for them. Screwing up a few times actually goes under the name "experience". The more experience you have the less chance you have of messing it up again. tldr; Screw ups happen. If you mess up there are plenty more chances out there as long as you're willing to find/make them.

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Transcendence 05/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

"With pickup lines, one can never go wrong." -Yoda

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iGIamorous 05/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

use a cute pick up line ! nothing pervyy. and then just say hey and talk to her dont tell her you like her anything, its creepy if you do that right away

Transcendence 05/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] iGIamorous : use a cute pick up line ! nothing pervyy. and then just say hey and talk to her dont tell her you like her anything, its creepy if you do that right away [/quote] "Hey nice pants, I have a pair just like that at home!" How's that for a pick up line?

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iGIamorous 05/04/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

i probably wouldnt talk to you after that. rofl,