Girl help please :D

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thread starter luffyrubber Apr 07 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

So I went on a first date with this girl a couple of days ago. I think she really enjoyed it. The problem is that I haven't talked to her in 4 days. I don't know what we are in terms of relationship status but I think if I call her, I might come off as needy and annoying. I over think things A LOT and it's my biggest weakness. I think I've lost my chance with her but I was talking to her friend and she says otherwise. I don't want to move things too fast but I just hate waiting...

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KuroShikaku 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Call her or text her or something. I think 4 days is enough. I have the same problem. I've been known to be really clingy so now I get nervous about that.

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gbaemerald 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Just text her, you won't come off as needy as calling her.

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MrMojoRisin 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well it's been four days, so I think you'll be fine to call her.

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yoyonite2 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Stop waiting and just call her. You're not moving too fast if it's happened 4 days after the first date. Don't believe in the movie cliches.

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SkylerZio 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

^^^ yup the rule is three days

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Anthropology 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

PICK UP THE PHONE, BOY! she must be wondering the same. and if she really DID enjoy the date as much as you did, she wouldn't be annoyed at all hearing from you!

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luffyrubber 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Thanks guys. You've helped me tons. I just tend to over think things a lot

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shadowlessxO 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Anthropology : PICK UP THE PHONE, BOY! she must be wondering the same. and if she really DID enjoy the date as much as you did, she wouldn't be annoyed at all hearing from you! [/quote] this. ): make a move already~ its already been FOUR days D:

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luffyrubber 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] shadowlessxO : this. ): make a move already~ its already been FOUR days D: [/quote] Yeah I know D: I just texted her right now. I hope she replies...

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MSLovelyIdiot 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

: o Good luck !

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DlNGisZINGED 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

In my personal experience, girls HATE it when they don't hear from a guy almost immediately after going on a date with them. Don't wait it out too much so that she thinks you have lost interest. That's always a no-go. The most important thing is, when you do finally talk to her, RELAX. Don't over think things or try to act a certain way to impress her. I know it's cliche, but be yourself. Nothing shines through more to a girl (or guy, for that matter) than sincerity and honesty. Now go get 'em Tiger

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isellscrolls 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

you're going too slow. you should have your wedding ring ready by now.

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kmarts3curity 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] luffyrubber : Yeah I know D: I just texted her right now. I hope she replies... [/quote] you should have probably called her

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luffyrubber + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] isellscrolls : you're going too slow. you should have your wedding ring ready by now. [/quote] Hahahha that's funny because that's how I am planning on asking her to prom. (It was an idea someone posted on Basil) @above: i'm new at this. give me a break D:

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