So my girlfriend cheated on me.

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thread starter PreciseShot Apr 07 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Started today at night I was having a nightmare about her and this new guy she's been talking with recently. I've always trusted her to my fullest and was okay with any guy she wanted to talk to. So, it was about how I caught them kissing while I went over. Blah blah blah no details on that. Anyways I told her about that. The coincidence is she confessed she kissed him today. Especially on her own birthday she would do that to me. I even bought her an expensive necklace with and A on it (The first letter of my name). We've been going out for 2 years and a half now and I went off on her. I felt bad ): After that I told her I was sorry for going off on her and I chose my words carefully cause I didn't want a break up since I need her that bad in my life. I told her I lost trust in her. So, she kept apologizing and stuff like that and she only meant it as a friendly kiss, which I knew was a little bit of BS. I wanted to fight the guy which was really surprising for me since I'm supposed to be pacifist. Thought I had the strong feeling to.. We made up and I have her back in my life, but I told her we had to start back to point A in trust. She told me she'll never do it again and I sort of believe her cause it could've been out of curiosity or something. Or maybe I'm in denial. It's just a short rant I guess or releasing feelings. If you read it thanks I guess?/ Rant Also do you think kissing someone else, just a short quick kiss is cheating? EDIT: We made up and I told her It's going to be harder to trust her. If she does it again then it'll be over next time. I really hope I made the right choice.

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HeyWaddup 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Don't trust her :D or wait a couple of months and see how it works out

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PreciseShot 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] HeyWaddup : Don't trust her :D or wait a couple of months and see how it works out [/quote] Maybe, but it's hard 3;

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chinesenood1 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well , if she is cheating on you, that means she does not want you. I say dump her

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mahbishup 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Shoot that girl

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magich0ia + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I wouldn't take them back if they cheated on me. And of course kissing someone else is cheating.

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carmine6s 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

if it happens again, cut her loose

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Magic187 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You're in denial, once she cheats, it's easier for her to do it again. Tread carefully, and make her want you.

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TsubakiChii 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Most of these answers are from movies and TV. That's why you don't ask basil.

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Incedio654 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I would definitely giver her one more try...if i had a girl in my life that I loved, I'd want her to stay in my life...but if anything happened..yeah...I'd have to break up with her ._.

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Wrecked 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

i think she might be tempted to do it again, or maybe go a little further. but i really hope it turns out for the best.

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PreciseShot 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] TsubakiChii : Most of these answers are from movies and TV. That's why you don't ask basil. [/quote] Wasn't really asking just a rant or I can't think of the word... Something to calm me down.

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xWindRavenx 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

@PreciseShot - "Venting" is the word your looking for ;) Just take it slow but don't go 100% into the relationship until you're ready to trust her again.

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CaptVerlas 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

In the words of Eminem. Eff slitting her throat cut the b1@!$ head off!

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BloodyHell 04/07/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Kissing on the lips is probably considered cheating by almost everyone.

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