should i tell my gf that i play maple?

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thread starter salutorious Mar 16 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Ive been contemplating this question for a while and i dont really even know why im asking here but i guess i just wanna get some input from some random people O.o. Let me start by saying I have played some form of maple or a different online game in my "breaks" for the past 3 years now. Over these 3 years there are only a hand full of people who i knew in real life that knew i played. My best friend who got me started and plays another really good friend who kinda played my next store neighbor who is like a brother to me and their families. I always figured i would have quit by now but something always holds me back im almost 16 in high school (i defiantly going to drop the game at college). I usually justify this by saying well i don't have a console system (parents think i will get addicted wtf maple? O.o) but in the last few months i have gotten into my first serious relationship with a girl. We get along great and we tell each other almost everything the big one for me being that i am a gamer. No one at school knows i am. I dont want to mess up my relationship by telling her but i dont really wanna keep secrets from her. What do you guys (and gals) think i should do?

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cryaboutit 03/16/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Don't tell her. It's nothing she can get mad about because it's insignificant in your relationship. Trust me, it's for the best.

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Survivalism 03/16/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

wow you play a free online game, you don't have gonorrhea. it really doesnt matter

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KhaosNinja 03/16/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Honestly in high school most of the kids either play xbox or ps3, more then you think. its really not that big of a deal, just tell her

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IAmDoomsday + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Don't say a thing, leave the status quo.

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Spangle + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

if you want to keep your relationship, don't. this guy asked me out and i found out that he plays maplestory.

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blahhkneegroee 03/16/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

i told my gf she doesnt mind... im a guy btw

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iKimshi 03/16/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

If she's the type of girl that's going to break up with you because of you playing a simple game, then she's not worth it. I say tell her.

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KhaosNinja 03/16/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

really i told my girlfriend and i still get laid plus i told her before we started going out if she likes you it really shouldn't matter

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Cheezzydude 03/16/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

If you can't be straight up honest with her, and if she can't accept the fact that you enjoy playing MMORPGs, then the two of you don't belong together.

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Survivalism 03/16/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

if it makes you feel better, the dooshy "cool kids" at my school at least play MW2. some of them play WOW at lunch and it's hilarious

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pokercrazed 03/16/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Survivalism makes a lot of sense. It's a game that you play. Why should that have anything to do with your relationship?

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KhaosNinja 03/16/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Survivalism : if it makes you feel better, the dooshy "cool kids" at my school at least play MW2. some of them play WOW at lunch and it's hilarious [/quote] same at my school its like i said most kids play video games its really not that big of a deal and if she tries to say something then just say" what else am i supossed to do when your not around" lol, can only benefit you or try asking her if she plays any games and if she does show her maplestory

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Spongebob567 03/16/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

NOOOOOOOO! My girlfriend thinks Im kind of a no life loser for playing Maple. Save yourself that torture. :'(

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Travis 03/16/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

My friend told his GF he plays runescape, and he even got her to start playing My brother told his GF he plays runescape, and she said it was cute its no big deal

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