What should I do about my flirty boyfriend?

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thread starter UnderRepair Mar 06 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well, I have been going out with my current boyfriend for almost a month now. & when we first met, he was completely honest. I guess I fell for him. Hard. But after seeing what girls write on his wall on Facebook... "Haha, I love you too, Ray<3" And seeing what he says to other girls (very flirty). When I asked him about it, he said that he loved them in a friendly way. What should I do about this...? I'm not comfortable with him and those other girls.

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HalcyonMinuet + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Ask him to stop being so flirty with other girls or ask him to tone it down because it makes you feel bad. Or try to bear with it if he can't help it. Overall, just talk to him and get him to explain that they're only friends and he would never feel something else for them. Though, if it gets too suspicious, then...

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MtFuji 03/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Just talk to him? :]

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HolyMythos 03/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Start loving other guys in a friendly way and see how he takes it :D

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HalcyonMinuet 03/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] HolyMythos : Start loving other guys in a friendly way and see how he takes it :D [/quote] Also, this.

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Telatsu 03/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Attempt to change him. Have him hate you for it. Inevitable break up. ... Or ... Deal with it.

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eg7eg77 03/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

i don't think you should pay much attention to it...getting to know those girls would probably help you feel better about it ;) and get guy friends too, as other basilers said ^^

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LightStruck 03/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

"Haha, I love you too" is not 'flirty'. I say that to my best friend all the time.

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UnderRepair 03/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

profil3 onlineMar 06* + ! PM, Scrap, Quote, Link HalcyonMinuet Minuette 28 Scania Aran Awakened Ask him to stop being so flirty with other girls or ask him to tone it down because it makes you feel bad. Or try to bear with it if he can't help it. Overall, just talk to him and get him to explain that they're only friends and he would never feel something else for them. Though, if it gets too suspicious, then... Haha, that's good advice. But I don't plan on breaking up with him anytime soon. Overall, he's a great boyfriend. Just the flirting I can't deal with.

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heyitsmexD 03/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Dump him. I sense an inevitable breakup in the future.

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necrogore666 03/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] UnderRepair : Well, I have been going out with my current boyfriend for almost a month now. & when we first met, he was completely honest. I guess I fell for him. Hard. But after seeing what girls write on his wall on Facebook... "Haha, I love you too, Ray<3" And seeing what he says to other girls (very flirty). When I asked him about it, he said that he loved them in a friendly way. What should I do about this...? I'm not comfortable with him and those other girls. [/quote] deal with it you guys only have been going out for a month so you can't really tell him not to flirt or talk to any other girls a man can choose how to talk to his friends.

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lilbabyviet 03/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

What grade are you in? If you're still in high school/middle school, don't even bother with relationships. You're just going to fall hard for someone and get your heart torn to shreds.

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HalcyonMinuet + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] UnderRepair : profil3 onlineMar 06* + ! PM, Scrap, Quote, Link HalcyonMinuet Minuette 28 Scania Aran Awakened Ask him to stop being so flirty with other girls or ask him to tone it down because it makes you feel bad. Or try to bear with it if he can't help it. Overall, just talk to him and get him to explain that they're only friends and he would never feel something else for them. Though, if it gets too suspicious, then... Haha, that's good advice. But I don't plan on breaking up with him anytime soon. Overall, he's a great boyfriend. Just the flirting I can't deal with. [/quote] Mmmhm, just be careful. Calm down about it. I'm sure he'd understand too, if he really likes you. (god I'm such a hypocrite) @Necrogore: Yes she can because they are boyfriends.

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gokuryu 03/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

if the girl is smaller than u or the same size, then fight her. if she is bigger than u, then stab her with a pencil.

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HalcyonMinuet 03/06/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] lilbabyviet : What grade are you in? If you're still in high school/middle school, don't even bother with relationships. You're just going to fall hard for someone and get your heart torn to shreds. [/quote] way2beadowner You can't be the judge of that, it depends on the people, you just have to find the right person. @above: Rofl.

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