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So Im Gay

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thread starter executionerz Mar 01 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Title Says it all. Pretty much Im the last person to have the Family Name even thou my grandma had 4 children 2 boys 2 girls. My Auntie didnt have a child yet, My Other Auntie has like 6 or 5. My uncle has 2 girls but secretly had sex with another woman so the woman can get a baby and it turned out to be a boy but he doesnt have our last name. Im the only adolescent who knows about this. My Grandma,Grandpa,My Step Mom, and Me which i remember are the only ones who knows about it soo yea. And my Dad had me but im Gay. What Should i do?

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Chisel 03/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

My last name's not getting carried either. My cousin is gay and I don't want children. It's no big deal.

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aznphoenix05 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Dunno, the first thing that popped into mind was a sperm bank or something if they really want the family name to continue on :o Edit: I thought of friends right after this and how Ross married a lesbian and got her pregnant o.o

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executionerz 03/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

lol? post to short.

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Ztarfish 03/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Oh my god your situation is so similar to mine it's almost spooky. And I dunno, I'm pretty stressed about it too, I try not to worry about it too much since I'm only 18 though.

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Hamburger89 03/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Adopt. If you want children and you can't have any adopt. Don't try to hard or anything, there are people out there with children who cannot take care of them. He's not of your blood, but if you don't care about that then you should adopt. However, if it's just to carry on the family name and not because you want children. You shouldn't even try, they won't give kids out to just any person who has a lame reason like that. What does it matter if your family name isn't carried on?

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nietsrevliS 03/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

if your family wants to carry the name sperm it up if not big dealio everyones last name is going to be either kim,smith,jones,lee, or sanchez anyways

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manoqueen 03/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

What is the family's last name then? If it's something common then you shouldn't really care.

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executionerz 03/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

My Family Last Name Is De Luna and Im Filipino >.< Lol. People have Luna we Have De So it De Luna= The Moon :D

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ttrt112333 03/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Seems like quite a dilema. I guess it cones down to what's more important to you, your familys last name of your own sexual orientation? I personally have no say in this, i'm just 15, so my lifes experience is limited

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manoqueen 03/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

So it's really just normal? It would be like McConner or Conner? In the Philipines people have a more sociocentric way of thinking while in the western world a more egosentric. This means that it is more likely that you're going to choose your family above yourself. But since you already found out your gay, I think you should keep staying true to yourself, and choose yourself over your family. So, do nothing. Your family will be happy with you regardless of you keeping the family name or not. Maybe you'll adopt some day - who knows?

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gtbROX 03/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Okay I honestly did not understand your post, only your title, I'm not trying to be rude, like if you feel like it explain it to me maybe. OT: I'm gay too, and yeah it gets annoying explaining to other people why I like guys =/

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Hakizo 03/01/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] executionerz : My Family Last Name Is De Luna and Im Filipino >.< Lol. People have Luna we Have De So it De Luna= The Moon :D [/quote] I'm a puyat, my middle name's araneta. If all their worried about is last names, idk spermbank lawl? Oh i'm flip too. Anyways don't your other members get to carry the last name when they marry? Like male first cousins?

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