Help with girlfriend of two years.

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thread starter TheCatsHat Feb 28 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

3/2/10 Ok, I know said she was gonna come over today, but something came up and she has to watch her little brother. So, tommorow it is. Also, today I acted like everything was cool, and that I just wanted to talk to her, and I acted like I do normally. Was that wrong? I guess that's all for now. If I add at all it's gonna be later or tommorow. kthxbai. ~Griffin 3/1/10 I talked to her in school today, and because I didn't want to confront her there, I arranged for her to come over tommorow (Tuesday) So I'll post about that tommorow. I'm sorry I never updated yesterday but I was in a minor car crash (No, nobody was hurt) and I guess I don't really have to explain that. Sorry that this post seems choppy, and missing but I typed another really long post that took like 20 minutes to type...but... my computer ran out of charge and I lost it all. THANKS TO EVERYONE THAT PM'ED ME, YOU GUYS ARE GREAT Ok, I know that alot of people pm'ed me and, thanks guys, they were all great, but I would like to give a special thanks to meltpop (http://www.basilmarket.com/user/meltpop) and infiniteIQx (http://www.basilmarket.com/user/infiniteIQx) Again, thanks for the support, and sorry for the choppiness. I promise to have my update be a lot longer tommorow after I talk to her. ~Griffin 2/28/10 Ok, I know Basil hates these threads, and I usually do too, but I didn't where else to ask this I'm a 9th grader, (Griffin) and my "girlfriend's" name is Ava (10th grader) So, me and this girl, Ava started going out in the 7th and 8th grades respectively. So, at the time no one really liked her as a friend or anything more, she was weird, and pretty much ugly. so when she was in 9th grade, bam, all of a sudden she was hot. I have no idea what happened but, whatever. Then when she was in the 9th grade she was depressed for a while but people were actually starting like her, as a friend and because they thought she was sexy. But we ignored the people that "Like-liked" her (Sorry, I know that sounds really pathetic but I don't know how else to describe it) then, this year. At this point in time she is a total tool. She has 2 sides, the depressed one which I have to deal with, and the one that flirts with other guys. She's overly emotional and cuts herself whenever we argue, and every time I try to break up with her because she treats me like she doesn't care about me, she pretends like she doesn't act like that, cries, cuts herself, tells her friends lies about what happened to make me look like a jerk, and constantly tells me "Why are you doing this to me? I love you!" and then last night. First off, sorry if this doesn't explain my situation very well but its hard to fit 2 years of emotionally draining relationship into something thats not a wall of text. But anyway, last night. So, she calls me and asks "Do I want to go to the battle of the bands" I agree, since I needed to talk to her about this. I bring my friend Lukas, and my friend Quinn, who everyone knows are my bestfrien

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TheCatsHat 02/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] ExDeath : Oh boy....lemme get my reading glasses, this is gonna take a while. [/quote] Sorry it's so long, and I didn't even scratch the surface

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Popcorn 02/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] ExDeath : Oh boy....lemme get my reading glasses, this is gonna take a while. [/quote] It has something to do with a girl.

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Spangle 02/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

just break up with her and get over it. gosh.

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EraserBuddy 02/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

hit it and quit it

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DangItRuthie 02/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well, if you keep going out with her, you'll be stuck to her and you won't go anywhere in life. I suggest you dump her, but it's your own choice. Let her screw her own life up, don't care what other people say because soon everyone will hate her again and forget about that you dumped her.

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Milkshakess + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I read it all. Dump her, and never look back. If she cuts herself more tell her she deserves it for being such a whore.

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oink98 02/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Flirt with other girls. If she starts getting jealous say if she can do it, so can you. If she wants you to stop flirting, tell she has to also.

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xxSwirl 02/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Honestly, if I were you I'd just break up with her. I wouldn't want to deal with a girl like that, she knows you were there and she kept letting them grab her ass. If I kept getting ass grabs i'd slap them in the face.

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Uchiha 02/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

shes not worth it so hit it and quit it

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SlashxD 02/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

just break up with her dude she seems kinda like a player imo u have to either change ur relationship for the better or cut it dont worry about all the ppl that say ur a jerk tell them wat really happened and if they dont believe you, then theyre jerks/hoes if ur emotionally hurt, then cut im serious u have to get out of that kinda relationship u deserve better shes the hoe here and if she really did love you she wouldnt have done all those things when u do break up, distract urself from her tell ur friends the truth and live on ull get over it cry if you have to pick someone with the same morals/beleifs as you, thats wat i did and im in the best relationship of my life gl man cheers

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ZackIsPwn 02/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Milkshakess : I read it all. Dump her, and never look back. If she cuts herself more tell her she deserves it for being such a whore. [/quote] Took the words out of my soul.

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TheCatsHat 02/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You guys really think I should dump her? Because if I do, I'm gonna be harrased by everyone at school, and beaten up by her friends, because I know I said I'd beat the - out of Nate and Nicky, but that was the most upset I've ever been, and I couldn't control myself. I'm a pacifist, and no one at our highschool respects that.

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Tonberry 02/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Break up and ignore other people's comments cause they have no idea how she's been treating you. At least your true friends will stick with you.

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Tearsofglass 02/28/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

she sounds like a biznitch i say leave her..of course its ultimately your decision

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