What Should I do?

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thread starter blazeknight7 Feb 12 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

So yesterday, I decided to drive over to the flower shop and buy the girl I like some flowers, for a early valentine's gift because I wouldn't see her for the next couple of weeks (Olympic Break). Today, I gave them to her , but our whole class was watching and they put some pressure on me, I've had so many girlfriends before but this girl you could say was my soulmate literally no joking, we liked the same things and she was pretty, smart, religous, didn't care what other people thought of her and was always herself (I found out that she liked me as well, her best friend told me.) I guess I cracked under the pressure of my whole class watching me give White carnations to her and I just gave them and just walked away, then I asked her out later and she said she'd think about it. So at the end of that day she didn't say yes or no, BUT on the good side some of the guys and her friends were saying she was going to say yes, but she never did. So should I keep trying or just give up already?

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JoeyBartez 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

If you're nervous, don't you think she's nervous? Give it time.

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blazeknight7 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] JoeyBartez : If you're nervous, don't you think she's nervous? Give it time. [/quote] She didn't look like she cared everyone was around her.

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Anything4You 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Why would you even think of giving up hope after just one day? Give her some time and space to think about it. You can't possibly expect her to have an answer in less than a day. BUT, still show her that you care for her.

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blazeknight7 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] Anything4You : Why would you even think of giving up hope after just one day? Give her some time and space to think about it. You can't possibly expect her to have an answer in less than a day. BUT, still show her that you care for her. [/quote] Yeah you're right but it was like she didn't even think about it, and I gave the flowers at 10:00AM and our school day ended 3:00PM. I personally thought that a was a big chunk of time.

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isellscrolls 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You've had so many girlfriends, you should be an expert when it comes to relationships.

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blazeknight7 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] isellscrolls : You've had so many girlfriends, you should be an expert when it comes to relationships. [/quote] Yeah but it's hard to find out what she's thinking, all the other girls think like the others, they're like a bunch of sheep. But the girl I like is herself, along with her best friend they're always themselves, they're kinda crazy sometimes but they're different and that's what i like about her.

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JoeyBartez 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] blazeknight7 : Yeah you're right but it was like she didn't even think about it, and I gave the flowers at 10:00AM and our school day ended 3:00PM. I personally thought that a was a big chunk of time. [/quote] Girls are iffy. They like to talk to their friends about it and consult random people who don't relate to their problems etc. etc. That takes time. Personally, I'd simply ask her for her answer, but don't be pushy about it.

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blazeknight7 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] JoeyBartez : Girls are iffy. They like to talk to their friends about it and consult random people who don't relate to their problems etc. etc. That takes time. Personally, I'd simply ask her for her answer, but don't be pushy about it. [/quote] Sounds true.

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iIsrael 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You and relationship threads. God, this is getting old man.

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isellscrolls 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] blazeknight7 : Yeah but it's hard to find out what she's thinking, all the other girls think like the others, they're like a bunch of sheep. But the girl I like is herself, along with her best friend they're always themselves, they're kinda crazy sometimes but they're different and that's what i like about her. [/quote] This is your relationship, not basil. I'm sure she would want you to figure it out yourself and not be influenced by what others have to say.

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blazeknight7 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] iIsrael : You and relationship threads. God, this is getting old man. [/quote] Yes i know, this is probably gonna be my last, I'am getting tired of typing these too. @sellscrolls - yeah i know, but there's no one else to ask, trust me my peers are not trustworthy.

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