This girl I met in maple (help!)

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thread starter blobie Feb 12 2010 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

WARNING: Wall of text with bad english ahead (but try to help me plz) So... I'm a G.I.R.L in maple, but I'm not a gold digger or something, I just like to see something nice while I play, instead of a man >.> ANYWAYS, I met this girl in maple, and we became friends and all like long ago, we talked and evrything and we discovered that we live in the same city and all (wich was pretty amazing since we don't live in the USA and here, maple is not a common game). One day, she asked for my mail and well, we added each other on the messenger and all, then in the messenger, I told her the truth, that I was a boy, was no gay and everything, but she told me that she searched for my mail in facebook and saw that i was a boy and she told me that it was no problem at all and understood perfectly. Now, the interesting part beggins. She almost never put photos of her on her msn avatar (and I do put a lot), and one day, we were talking about some maple stuff and the she changed her avatar and put a pic of her (she's beautiful), I asked if she was her and she replied that yes, she was the one of the pic, then she put another where she looked funny and I putted a funny one too (she said I looked nice), I was doing something else, so I changed windows while she replied, she did, I put the conversation window back and she had this self shot photo of her, showing her butt and I almost faint there, cause she's smoking hot. I said something like "WOW you look reaaally good in that photo" or something, then she put the blush face and changed again to her regular maple pics. A few days ago, she gave me her cellphone number, she said that she likes to send phone messages and well, after that she d/c'ed. We kept talking by messenger and stuff, but many times that I try to speak of something else, she often leads or links the conversation with maple (maybe because it's where we met), anyways, she keeps referring to me as her "little friend" she calls every one in maple like that, but I know I am more that that because we talk often about or day, what we did and stuff. The thing is that I wanna met her IRL but idk how to approach (cause she have had told me that wherever that she wants to find a job, the boss it's hitting on her, or that (for example) someone on our alliance lives in the same city than ours and he was very pushy about meeting her irl (she finally gave in, but she went with her cousin who also plays maple), but she doesn't feel cormftable neeting ppl that way, she says that she likes to know better the persons after meeting irl. I have had asked friend and relatives, told the whole story and all, but I still don't know what to do, how to approach to her without scaring her (cause I liked her before I knew how she was phisically) but now, knowing all of this, I'm afraid of scaring her (what if she thinks that I wanna met her cause she's hot?, or what if she thinks that I only want sex?, no I wanna talk to her, know her and see if in time, we can be a couple o

Daftehh 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

ZERO CHANCE WHATSOEVER game over OP

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abkio 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

ss of butt

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blobie 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I'm not asking about chances, I know I have chances cause... well female friends says that I'm very handsome, and I have no doubt of that, the thing is that idk how to met her IRL, w/o making her think that I only want sex (wich I don't... well yeah, eventually, but not right away)

executionerz 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Just approach her like hey wassup u kno but dont be to nervous or dont act fake just be yourself.

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TheOrange 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

She sent you pictures of her butt over the internet? Anyway, I say wait it out and she if she agrees after a while, and you get closer.

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blobie + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] executionerz : Just approach her like hey wassup u kno but dont be to nervous or dont act fake just be yourself. [/quote] yes, that's my plan, but... how do I arreange the first date, w/o making her think bad stuff? @above, no she didn't send me anything, she just put em on her msn avatar. and yeah I know it takes time, but I'm always like faster in this kind of stuff, but knowing her past, I can't risk, but i wanna know her now D:

omgitzkirby 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Have you ever considered that those pictures might not really be of her -.-

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executionerz 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

If u kno shes comfortable meeting with you ask her. If not dont rush her just keep talking to her and like keep trying and be like oh hey wanna hang out etc.

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blobie + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] omgitzkirby : Have you ever considered that those pictures might not really be of her -.- [/quote] yes, but she has FB and well, there are her RL friends and maple friends there, so I know it's her. @executionerz: yeah it's what everybody tells me to do ): I think I'll stick with it, even if it's slow... more opinions?

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edit:nevermind

imearth 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Webcam first.

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IchigoSenkai 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

The girl is a 55 year old guy who lievs in a basement and pleasures himself b y looking at ur pictures. case closed

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blobie 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

[quote] imearth : Webcam first. [/quote] Yeah, good advice. [quote] IchigoSenkai : The girl is a 55 year old guy who lievs in a basement and pleasures himself b y looking at ur pictures. case closed [/quote] she has FB and well, there are her RL friends and maple friends there, so I know it's her.

imearth 02/12/10 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Webcam first.

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