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Girl Advice?

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thread starter meeppoo Sep 02 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

So I've been talking to this girl for about a month and I can tell she likes me and I really like her too. We've been on a couple of dates: held hands, cuddled at the movies bla bla bla. We haven't hooked up yet because I see her as more than a "fling". We talk every night on skype, phone, msn etc for at least 2 hours but recently (I think) I've seen a little change. She just met this other guy and I know him, he's a good looking dude and he's really nice. He's flirting with her, I've heard from some other friends and I'm starting to think she's losing interest or something . She was really enthusiastic about going out with me a few days ago, but now she's almost like "meh" but not really. I need to know whether to put anymore effort into this or whether I'm being paranoid. SUMMARY I like a girl. She likes me. But I don't know if she likes me anymore because of another new guy. ADVICE- chill out, or just leave?

iHiryuu 09/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Be you... If that's such a hard concept I am worried about you in a actual relation

meeppoo 09/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Be me ? Im asking whether I should just relax or let the relationship die

holyzhix 09/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Talk to the guy, ask him if he really likes her. It would be obvious if he is lying.

crappyme 09/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

It depends on if you like her enough to ask her out. If you do, ask her out and see how she feels. Depends on your feelings for her

meeppoo 09/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

we've already been on a couple of dates...

CooHwip 09/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Kill the other guy?

ZinkSlayer 09/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

''Few days ago''. >________> Wait a week and see.

litoxvicki3 09/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

CooHwip : Kill the other guy? THIS! :D. No just kidding :P. Try being more romantic or affectionate.

jeffui3000 09/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Play hard to get, duhhhh. Flirt with other girls.

meeppoo 09/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

thanks puppy and coohwip. finally some legit advice hahahaa

litoxvicki3 09/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

meeppoo : thanks puppy and coohwip. finally some legit advice hahahaa No problem :P.

KachiOyabun 09/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Just make efforts to look better just in case. Work out, dress better, etc. But otherwise just be yourself. It's not worth it if the girls not into you for you.

OmgPanda 09/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Hmmm. IDK what to do But, hypothetically speaking, if I were you I would just pretend I'm not bothered at all ;)

Apathetic 09/02/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

meeppoo : thanks puppy and coohwip. finally some legit advice hahahaa Now I know you aren't being serious, or you aren't very good with people.