thread starter Zyphlo Aug 29 2009
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| Hey basilers, please take the time to read this and give me some support and help please. So, tommorow my best friend is throwing a party and she called me and asked me to go. However, she has this other friend at her house, and I guess her friend REALLY REALLY HATES ME. So before I go on, I'll give you guys a little history of me and her friend. We've met ONCE, but talked on msn numerous times. I have exceptionally long hair for a guy, and I tend to care about it quite a bit. For this reason, her friend thinks i'm homosexual and she calls me "gay man". She thinks I dress gay when the first time I saw her I was wearing an AE polo, levis slim fits, and converse. I'm also a REALLY joking guy, so sometimes when she calls me gay and talks about guys, I go along with it and say stuff like "yeah, i wanna be a girl cuz they're so pretty!" and she shows me a guy and I say "wow, he's cute" right? I mean I guess it's polite to give your opinions on a guy when a girls shows you one (but by no means do I have feelings for him or lust for him....). And... I'm in highschool, so saying "I love you" to my freinds (guys, no homo, and girls) are like normal kind of. So as she found out these things, she started to BELIEVE I'm gay... and she's making up crap saying who I dated and stuff that's not even true. In fact, I've dated girls, just that they failed to acknowledge that. Then she starts calling me ugly, and telling me about all these other hot guys and telling me I can't compare. I know that I can't compare to some sexy guys, but hey can't I get some credit? I'm not butt ugly or anything. Well, they're BOTH telling me to go, and her friend threatens me, saying if I don't go, she'll kill me or whatever (I know probably not true, but in reality, she'll be probably be more of a female dog to me). Why is she so mean to me? I haven't done anything to her. Her reason for being mean is because I am "me". I really don't want to go the party now... because Im' guessing I'll probably be harrassed more and who knows what else. Can you guys please guide me figure out why she might hate me so much (or is it just an act? I can't tell because we've been chatting over the internet, but it seems quite sincere coming from her)? If you guys need any more information feel free to request, I'll answer it 100% |
