Girlfriend help

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thread starter Herosgate Aug 27 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Alrighty where to begin, anyways her names Claudia, i only have 1 class with her witch is math and its at the last period. :[ last year she broke up with her boyfriend, shes been looking at me, her face just turns red when i make her laugh i guess, but i keep thinking shes giving me hints but if i think wrong shes gonna turn me down. i want to go out with her but i don't want to move things to fast, i want to get to know her better, but what are good topics to start a conversation, i want to drop hints now and there to make her think that i want to go out with her and give her some time to think. she sits across from me, i asked her for her aim but she said no she didn't have one, i want to ask her for her number or something. i think she likes me but i want to be sure about it first, i want to get her to be my girlfriend before she might lose interest in me. i got money to take her out, but im afraid since i haven't had any girlfriend experiences so i would know what to do, i want to take it slow but i don't know what to do, i need advice please :[

Chawcolate 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

get her number first. "we should hang out sometime?"

BlueEraser 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Try smalltalk in the hallways between classes :0

AznXKevin77 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Hi how are you doing Or just mess around in class like poke her or something

kago97 Aug 27 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

"Hi, wanna go out with me?"

intellibit 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

"I'll give you a nickel if you tickle my pickle." Works every time.

PinoyMatt 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Smalltalk about recent events that don't bore women or compliment her on her appearance. And truly, if you like her, appreciate her for who she is, not what she is. Things to say that you mean like "You look great today." or "Good morning Claudia. Anything happen today?" Don't be the shy stalker dude. Girls don't like that. And since she is your first girlfriend, go steady, don't rush anything, and experiment and improvise from time to time. Remember, girlfriend, not life partner. Treat her like you like her, but don't get too infatuated until you both know what's going on.

mtndudes 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

"Can i have your number i need help with math homework."

coldxkt 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well, just try to be her friend, casually. Then try a move. It works better than a sudden attempt. (Comes from personal experience) Try talking to her during lunch or something, socialize a bit with her. Talk about things she likes. It helps.

lordsam92 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

be like "Hey lets get it on" j/k in all seriousness just be like "hey wanna hang out sometime?" or "Hey lets go to the movie" or "hey whats your # so i can text you or something" since you have little xp use generic lines

MizMisa 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Chawcolate : get her number first. "we should hang out sometime?" Do this, then make small talk like the other basiler said. And slowly progress from there, if she enjoyed hanging with you the first time yu go out, ask more often, until you both are sure that you wanna date each other. Then ask her to be your girlfriend.

Fancy 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Just be yourself mang. Don't do anything over the top, and once you become good friends ask if she wants to hang out sometime. After hanging out with her a few times tell her how you feel she might feel the same way.

ShadowXCritt 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

BrownBrutha : Wooo girl ur dad must be baker cuz those are some hawt buns. Than u squeeze boobs and run :D ROFLMFAO, I am laughing so hard

Boondock5 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Screw getting to know her better. That'll move you to friend status. Ask her for her number and if she'd wanna hang out sometime.

lordsam92 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

MizMisa : Do this, then make small talk like the other basiler said. And slowly progress from there, if she enjoyed hanging with you the first time yu go out, ask more often, until you both are sure that you wanna date each other. Then ask her to be your girlfriend. in simple terms "Make small talk, hang out, date inexclusively, go exclusive"