I guess love really don't exist

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thread starter icyspell Aug 27 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I tried to make her happy as much as I can, helped her with her homework everytime she asked me to, and she still ended up choosing another guy over me... Every time she tells me she is having any sort of emotional problems, I would always try my best to comfort her, sometimes making her laugh. Everytime she has problems with her homework, I would help if she asks me to...such as essays, ideas for design, research for pictures...normally time consuming. I sometimes even sacrifice my precious studying time for tests to help her. After everything I've done for her...she still didn't choose me, probably because I'm not good enough... I really don't think I will believe in love, neither would I trust another person...people use others for their own advantage, in this scenario, I'm the one that has been used.

ZappyPantz Aug 27 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Find her facebook, create a false profile, and bully your ex until she commits suicide.

icyspell 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

ZappyPantz : Find her facebook, create a false profile, and bully your ex until she commits suicide. That is something I would never do, and yes, I do have her facebook.

Rawky 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Maybe she only thinks of you as the 'Guy friend'.

OhMahGod 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You acted too much like a good friend, so she thinks of you that way.

kro4lyf 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

chances are she sees u as a "brother" about the worst thing that can happen to guy u have 2 choices 1) u perceive and hopefully she will see the light which there is a good chance she will after shes gone through heaps of guys and realized the one thats always been by her side is u =]... although i warn u this path may take quite some time so if u choose it just be there and continue doing what are for her =] 2) move on. i know it sounds harsh but if u can see theres no way shes ever going to be with u then just move on try to find love else were there are plenty of "fish in the sea" as some 1 rather says =] but let me tell u love does exist how do i know? im in love =]]]] with my best friend to =]]] it took a while to get there but its worth it. let me tell u its worth it good luck in w/e u do =]

LikedBandit 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I am in the EXACT same situation you are in. .__. We're more like brothers and sisters I guess.

Herosgate 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

plenty of fish in the sea, there are girls out there who appreciate generous people like you out there :3 in fact, today in math class imma ask this girl i like for her aim and see how it goes from there :]

icyspell 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Herosgate : plenty of fish in the sea, there are girls out there who appreciate generous people like you out there :3 in fact, today in math class imma ask this girl i like for her aim and see how it goes from there :] Good luck.

jin611 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

love does exist its just that i think you got thrown into the "friend zone" which isnt great if you were planning to date her

icyspell Aug 27 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

kro4lyf : chances are she sees u as a "brother" about the worst thing that can happen to guy u have 2 choices 1) u perceive and hopefully she will see the light which there is a good chance she will after shes gone through heaps of guys and realized the one thats always been by her side is u =]... although i warn u this path may take quite some time so if u choose it just be there and continue doing what are for her =] 2) move on. i know it sounds harsh but if u can see theres no way shes ever going to be with u then just move on try to find love else were there are plenty of "fish in the sea" as some 1 rather says =] but let me tell u love does exist how do i know? im in love =]]]] with my best friend to =]]] it took a while to get there but its worth it. let me tell u its worth it good luck in w/e u do =] I think I'll just stick with option 3...that is not dating until after this year, need to work on my grades for university anyway... The bright side is...I'm probably going to South Island for university studies, so if any sort of relationship that is formed this year, it will eventually become a long-distance relationship...which I don't think it's a good idea (New Zealand here...I'm currently at North Island). Still, this situation question me, is it worth it to be a generous person...? Seems like people such as myself are always being taken advantage of...

imaalex 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

theres no such thing as love get over it u and her cud always be friends wit benefits thoughh :33

Sumwun 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Dude this is the problem with most young people these days. Instead of looking for a girl, you're supposed to wait for the right one to come to you. There are some girls that take advantage of guys like you. They use you, then go and date someone else. Love is perception. If you prioritize it in life, it'll overtake more important things. Focus on school until you're out of college/graduate school. It's easy.

xIdentity 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Yes there's such a thing as love. It just wasn't between you and that girl.

icyspell 08/27/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Sumwun : Dude this is the problem with most young people these days. Instead of looking for a girl, you're supposed to wait for the right one to come to you. There are some girls that take advantage of guys like you. They use you, then go and date someone else. Love is perception. If you prioritize it in life, it'll overtake more important things. Focus on school until you're out of college/graduate school. It's easy. Got 2~3 more months till I'm done with high school.