thread starter jeffydos Aug 24 2009
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| Hey guys. I'll lay out some minor details about our relationship. I'm 16 (Almost 17) and she is 15, we both attend the same school, but she is a Junior and I am a Senior. We have been going out since the 12th of May 2009, and it has been fun for the time being. I took her to prom which she loved, and alot of other dates which drained my wallet (lol). Now, I think my girlfriend is okay looking, but I really think I wanted to go out with her because right before I started talking to her, 4 days before my ex girlfriend had dumped me. I think I was just on the rebound. Well now I am screwed. I think my girlfriend is falling in love with me. For one, she always posts myspace bulletins like "That one word would make it ALL better, and EVERYTHING would be AMAZING!" And stuff like that. Obviously she is talking about love. She recently started adding <3's to her texts and all that junk. I think she's falling in love with me.. but I don't feel the same way. She likes me so much she even started to play maplestory, which is a horrible idea now that I think of it if we break up. Sexually, we have gone to third base. I feel bad now if we ever do that stuff because I always have it in the back of my mind that I want to break up with her. It's weird. Now some annoyances. She texts me 24/7! I can never get a break! Maybe i'm a bad boyfriend for not calling her a lot, but c'mon! A man needs his breaks! She is also very immature and doesn't have many manners. I took her out to dinner and there were countless things that had irritated me, but whatever. About her immaturity, she always calls me a "jerk" which is super annoying, even if she is kidding. The way she types too, likeee shee addsss extraa letterrss youu knoww what i'mm talkinggg aboutt? Idk I can't explain it. It's the little things that bother me. You might say "get over it and stop being so dam anal" but my ex girlfriend didn't irritate me at all, so i'm not really anal. Okay so now I am asking you for your help. School starts Monday and I was planning on breaking up with her on Wednesday or Thursday after school in the parking lot when we walk to my truck. I want to be honest without being harsh. I'm sure she will cry and i'll feel like a jerk. But I need advice on what I should say? Do you think it is a bad idea to do it on the phone? And I want to do it quick before she buys me something for my birthday! It's two weeks from now! Help me please EDIT: How do I make it seperate paragraphs? I spaced it out but nothing happened... |