Would you leave your girl friend right away if she cheated?

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thread starter LucierXVIII Aug 21 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Hello basil my name is Jason. I am 16 years old and my girlfriend is 15 years old. I was vacationing in Italy with my parents over the summer and when I arrived home I was happy to see my friends and girlfriend. I tried to chill with my girlfriend a lot so we could catch up on everything. But everything seemed so weird between us. Everytime I hugged her she kind of just made a fake smile and looked away. When I joked around she would just be so quiet. She didn't talk a lot to me like she used to. Before she would call me every night just to say goodnight or tell me a funny story about her day. And now she never called and never texted. Everytime I call her she always had an excuse to hang up or would be to sleepy, and I swear I could hear her crying sometimes. This went on for a couple weeks. Then one day very early in the morning she came to my house. She said she had something to tell me. I sat her down on my couch and asked her what was wrong. She was silent for a while. She wouldn't say anything all the while looking away from me. Then she just starting crying and told me she did some bad things while I was away. She told me her and her ex boyfriend had reconnected and they had sex a couple times at his place. I felt angry, mad, crushed, empty, sad at the same time. I never thought she would do this to me. She looked like such a sweet asian girl. What gets to me the most is that she would give her virginity away like that. I've treated her good for almost a year and she would never want to do it. I haven't talked to her since then cuz I don't know what to do... I keep thinking about it all day.

rockk 08/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I would leave my girlfriend.

OmgPanda 08/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Yes, I would leave. After a few choice words.

xSakuraNekox 08/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I would leave. >_>

VMIT 08/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

FINISH HER

DualWolf 08/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Wow, leave her now.

badballer7 08/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

hah her ex got her virginity before you did.

NSDARKNESSX Aug 21 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

That's pathetic. She's not my girlfriend, but if mine had sex with someone, and a couple of times too, I'd really blow a gasket. Thank god I don't trust people randomly.It sucks what happened to you though, and that's really immature. She seems to be sorry about it though.

shadow1111 08/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

say something like meaning full like i thought we had someting toghter or somthing like that then leave

FirePengy 08/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I'd leave her.

ScaniaSin 08/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I'd tap her once more, and then leave.

chcolate554 08/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

To be fair she should let you sleep with her sister and steal her virginity.

Unkee 08/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

VMIT : FINISH HER This

Kwals 08/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Leave her, unless you think it can work out.

DarkBlight Aug 21 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Get some action from her and leave? o.o