Would you forgive her?

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thread starter GodsWarning Aug 09 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

This is something that someone I know has to deal with, so I'd like your opinion. Let's say you have a sister who, her entire life, gets help and money from you. You bring her from your home country to the US and you help her get a house and buy clothes and food. After all of this, her step daughter unexpectedly dies in a car accident. She is awarded $56,000 in court and she asks her father (your father as well) to not tell you because she doesn't want you to ask her for money. AND: She also sent you flowers one day with a card that said "The person who thinks they know everything in truth does not know anything. I hope that you may get the love and care that you deserve from your wonderful family, and I will always love you." You find this out. What do you do?

ArtificialDeath 08/09/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Forgiving a person means putting it behind you and never bringing it back up, if you still get mad at the person for the same thing you never forgavve them.

Nuwen 08/09/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

After asking money from me, she won't give me money back? Lol? But since it's her money, I'll deal with it then.

ZinkSlayer 08/09/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I wouldn't get mad. Besides, I hate asking for money :P

HeirOfPirate 08/09/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I wouldn't forgive her considering I have been so helping and generous towards her and she considers me a selfish person who wants her money even though I spent money on her.

MizMisa 08/09/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well, I tend to hold grudges, but I'd forgive her after I confronted her and she gave me a valid reason as to why she did what she did.

xNekomarax 08/09/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

after all id done for her? no way. id never fogive that.

SteelyAbuser 08/09/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

If I gave her that much money, that means i must have alot of money.

brownone777 08/09/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Gandhi says to always forgive. I will forgive her. However, her actions would be incredibly selfish and self-centered, but it is her burden to bear.

iRuro00 08/09/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Erm, I'd forgive since we're friends and all. But I wouldn't trust her again, nor would I ever do her another favor. If she needed my help she'd be s*** outta luck. Karma can be a pain the arse sometimes. ;) Let it have it's flow.

kurtz223 Aug 09 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

This is what your going thru, right TS? @Above: Karma is a joke.

Close 08/09/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

half daughter? o_o

iRuro00 08/09/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Close has got a point, lmao " half daughter".

Lanique 08/09/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

whats a half daughter and no i wouldnt forgive her, but i usually don't forgive in general

xPiruPandax 08/09/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Get life insurance on her and hire a hitman.