Kissing. Good or Bad?

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thread starter iluvsarah Jul 31 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Here's how it goes. I was at school with my girlfriend yesterday. She left for home right after our class ended (yes kiddies, it's college). So, I was at the cafeteria, eating a burger and fries, when this girl from my calculus class sits next to me. She's been eying me for a while, I even caught her doing it once. We start talking, and she seems really nice. I'm about to leave, when she pulls my arm down, and kisses me. I didn't kiss back. Heck, I still had food in my mouth, but my friend was there and he saw the whole thing. My friend likes my girlfriend and told her. I spent a quarter of the day explaining to her that I didn't cheat on her, yet she believes otherwise. So my question to all of you is, if some guy/girl kisses you, yet you don't kiss back, does that count as cheating? As it stands, my girlfriend is a bit iffy around me. I won't deny that I was kissed by another girl, but I didn't kiss back. I didn't even enjoy it.

lilbabyviet 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Okay okay even better idea. Threesome.

MagicSheepz 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

did you attempt to falcon punch said kisser after the incident? if not, shame.

MSLovelyIdiot 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

There's a difference between a forced and a willing kiss, which in this case was the first So no, you were not cheating You had no control over what happened, nor could you do anything before it was too late

iluvsarah 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Loomer said: "You must have terrible reflexes if you couldn't pull away." Hahaha yeah I'm starting to think that way too. My reflexes are good at avoiding damage when playing maplestory, but in real life... not so good. Anyway, I tried talking to her about it today, but she kept avoiding me. Eventually, after her third class of the day, I knew it was her lunch break and decided to wait for her. Once she stepped out of class, I cornered her right away. But before I could say anything, she said she would forgive me in one condition. I would have to show her that I do love her. I was thinking... huh? Well, yeah alright. Today, I have to make 500 paper cranes. 250 of them have to be red and have to say, in blue sharpie, "I love you." The other 250 have to be blue and have to say, in red sharpie, "I'm sorry." I figured, why the heck not? Now I regret it, finally realizing how hard it actually is to make paper cranes. I'm barely on my 7th red one and haven't even started on the blue ones. I have to finish it by the end of this week. Do you guys think she's being unreasonable? Maybe I should beg her to cut down the number amount?

MysticEnvoy Jul 31 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

That's not cheating. That's like saying your girlfriend cheated on you because she was r--ed. @above: Yes, she's being completely unreasonable. I'd break up with her. She doesn't seem to trust you, she seems to like controlling you.

myPSP Jul 31 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

iluvsarah said: " Hahaha yeah I'm starting to think that way too. My reflexes are good at avoiding damage when playing maplestory, but in real life... not so good. Anyway, I tried talking to her about it today, but she kept avoiding me. Eventually, after her third class of the day, I knew it was her lunch break and decided to wait for her. Once she stepped out of class, I cornered her right away. But before I could say anything, she said she would forgive me in one condition. I would have to show her that I do love her... " Lol at the thoughts that went through my right after reading the last sentence of the second paragraph.

CoffeePrince 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

If your girlfriend breaks up with you because of that, so be it. It seems like she doesn't trust you.

demimatsui 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

before calling everyone "kiddies" maybe look yourself over first since you have to ask "basil market" for advice.

RandomPieBoy 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Where did you catch her doing it?

iluvsarah 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

MagicSheepz said: "did you attempt to falcon punch said kisser after the incident? if not, shame." I just got mad at her. I try hard not to hit girls. I dunno, I was just raised that way? MSLovelyIdiot said: "There's a difference between a forced and a willing kiss, which in this case was the first So no, you were not cheating You had no control over what happened, nor could you do anything before it was too late" Yup, I keep telling myself that, each time I make a paper crane. This is the first time this has ever happened to me. Maybe I should tell my girlfriend, "SS or it didn't happen." She would probably say: "Screen shot? ... what?" But the mere fact I told her that it happened, even though it's not the way she thinks... I think I dug my own grave.

Candiix3 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

It's not cheating. It was by force. I think you should still try to explaining it to her in every possible way. For example, e-mail, IM, phone, in person, etc...

heinous 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

iluvsarah said: " I just got mad at her. I try hard not to hit girls. I dunno, I was just raised that way? Yup, I keep telling myself that, each time I make a paper crane. This is the first time this has ever happened to me. Maybe I should tell my girlfriend, "SS or it didn't happen." She would probably say: "Screen shot? ... what?" But the mere fact I told her that it happened, even though it's not the way she thinks... I think I dug my own grave." honesty is a virtue? :3

RandomPieBoy 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Oh and, make her jealous and punch your friend.

iluvsarah 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

demimatsui said: "before calling everyone "kiddies" maybe look yourself over first since you have to ask "basil market" for advice." Yeah that thought crossed my mind too. Of course I asked my other friends, youngest one being a 17 year old girl. Most of them laughed at me, one of them even called me a noob in last night's Zakum run. The rest just told me to dump her, but I really don't want to, at least not over something like this. So when I posted this on basil, I thought "kiddies" would laugh even harder, but they're giving pretty neat advices.

McLovin 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

It's not cheating. It was force. I would ditch your "friend." If I was you. He doesn't seem like much a friend to me. Nor does your GF. So I would leave her too. If she can't trust you enough. Plus making all that stuff just for 1 little kiss? No way. It's not worth it bro.