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thread starter iBrkenHrteD Jul 31 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Ok ok, My friend has this girlfriend who is very emotional, you could say she's emo i suppose, and she cuts herself and she's into guro, does drugs, smokes, drinks alot and overall a really big slut. She gave a few other guys handies and head while she's still in this 'relationship' with my friend because everytime she tries to have sex with my friend he refuses because he's trying to break all her habits and turn her into a, i guess you could say, normal girl. He asked me for advice because my ex was like this, and i told him i had to basically sacrifice my body for her as i told her everytime she did something bad like give other guys handies, take drugs, drink etc., she had to put a razor blade to my wrist and cut it 3 times. For EVERYTIME she did it. And I had to bleed. My ex was a lot worse than his and eventually there was no space on my arms and she had to cut my body. I know this sounds very bad and i suppose it was probably 3 million times worse when i did it but i loved her dearly and knew she was worth it and eventually, i broke all her habits and she was normal because the scars showed how much it hurt me to see her like that. My friend doesn't want to do this because it is very extreme and painful and he says he's hurting bad already. So i'm asking you people now. What should he do? I already said if he doesn't want to try this, he should just break up with her, but i need more options. Comment please.

penguinslol2 Jul 31 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Dude, you lost me at slut. Vids please. OT: He should do it. If she has any compassion for him, she'll stop.

Diarrheaboy 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Leave her?

Playstation 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Tell your friend to suck it up, and take it like a man. If he's concerned about the cuts being visible, tell him to do it on his body, instead of arms/legs. I like your method though, making her cause you physical pain would cause her emotional pain. CREATIVE MAN HERE :D.

demimatsui 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

why is he with her if shes giving other guys head? desperate.

ICantKs 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I think it's more of self control. She CAN control herself not to have sex with other guys, but she doesn't. But then again it might be the guy's fault. I was watching a show the other night about relationships and the guy said if one of them isn't getting some because the other one doesn't want to lose it, then the one that wants some will get some, one way or another.

penguinslol2 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Playstation said: "Tell your friend to suck it up, and take it like a man. If he's concerned about the cuts being visible, tell him to do it on his body, instead of arms/legs. I like your method though, making her cause you physical pain would cause her emotional pain. CREATIVE MAN HERE :D." This.

iBrkenHrteD 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Bodysnatchers 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

>handie Lul'd

holywolo 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

This is so messed up.

oOCielOo 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Okay for one, putting himself on the line for her crap isn't the way to do it. I'd hate to be blunt but little missy can't go around screwing with people like that when she's tied in a knot with a guy. Tell your friend what's happening. As much as it'll hurt, he can't be with someone like that. What she needs to do is to learn to stop on her own.. which would take longer than just a month. When someone like that, it's a habit. A craving. It's as bad as smoking. And getting cut for another one's issues is a bad way to go across this. A girl like that, has to be avoided. She can be a friend but more than that, she's very emotionally dangerous. That's my suggestion. She does her thing, but don't suffer for it. Same goes for your friend. She wants to cut something? Have it be a fruit, vegetable, rip open a pillow. But someone else? For the crap she does? That's terrible.

intimacy 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Why is he so set on changing her? She doesn't seem to be worth the time.

Humanmango 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I stopped reading at "guro". ...Okay fine, I lied. But still, that some pretty screwed up stuff that's happening...

CreamyTaco 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

she can give aids o.0

iBrkenHrteD 07/31/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

holywolo said: "This is so messed up." Dude of course i know it is. But my friends a nice guy, he's attempting something i did before and he saw my scars and cuts while i was doing it, he doesn't want to look like and feel that. He really needs an option, but i'm almost certain he's going to end it. The only thing stopping him right now, is the fact that she said she'd go suicidal if he did.