I'm worried about my father

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thread starter ElJefe Jul 17 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

This will be the third time I've typed this all out D: DAMN YOU BOOKMARKS! So my dad got home around 12:30ish with a bag full of groceries and some pizza. He left at 8. Now, I would've been fine with this but all he did was go to the bank and bring home those two items. This isn't his first time taking hours to do a small task either. I don't know if it's just started happening recently or if I've been blind to it until now but it's been happening. Not even ten minutes after we finished the pizza my mom called. They talked about some things and he told her how I was being lazy and how I didn't have the dishwasher emptied when he got home. I yelled out "he was gone for four hours" and I heard him say some quick things to my mom. She obviously asked him what he went out for because a moment later he said "to go to the bank, get some groceries and other stuff". I was already suspicious of him for coming home so late but on top of it I heard him say in a hushed voice "they're (my niece and I) in the room". Then he covered himself saying driving between places took awhile. He then hurriedly said "we'll talk about it when you get home". I've always had a feeling in the pit of my stomach that my dad was unfaithful but today shook me. Hard. For awhile now my mom's been having some health problems. All could probably be linked to the fact that she's obese (300+ pounds). Fatty liver, minor heart problems, and she has a herniated and several bulging discs in her back which cause her severe pain (she had to have my dad wipe her and bathe her before she got this high dose pain pills). I know for a fact my parents' sex life hasn't been anywhere for a long while which only makes me worry more. My dad's also been having anger problems lately and it's rubbing off on me. I know I've been an ass to certain IRCers lately and I honestly do apologize. I just don't know what to think about all this.

MySecretLife 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I do not know what to say.

tokyoaok Jul 17 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

theres nothing you can do really except confront your dad which take eljefe sized nuts

Omelet 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Punch him in the belly. lololololo

chunkymeat 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Is you're dad fat too? Might explain why he takes forever to do stuff.

FerrSure 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You don't hear your parents at night. That's one point.

ElJefe Jul 17 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

My dad isn't fat. He's what I would call average for a 50 year old male. Edit: My dad works from 9PM to 7AM and my mom works from 7:30AM to 5PM.

BakaNakama 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Confront him.

ElJefe Jul 17 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

He has a really overpowering demeanor and I don't deal with pressure too well :/

BuckleMyGirl Jul 17 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

w.e idk ur dad's probably having an affair

tokyoaok 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

BuckleMyGirl said: "ur dad's a fool when he married your mom." youre an ass

ElJefe 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

My mom wasn't overweight when he married her. They've been together for 23 years now and seemed (SEEMED) to have a healthy relationship.

DeOriginz 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Keep track of what he does, check his phone calls, check his internet history, listen to whom he calls, check his emails too.

Crosby0 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

if you can drive or have a friend who can drive, follow him one day. or hide a video camera in the vehicle or hide in the trunk.

Billtwit 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

im sorry =[. so many asses on this thread. i guess just keep track of what he does.... And help your mom.