I'm in love with my bestfriend. Part 3

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thread starter Ghetto Jul 17 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Part 1 Part 2 Well, as some of you know from my previous thread, my love life has been going downwards in less than 24 hours. Ever since she told me she wanted to be with me, and regretted saying it, she's always upset and she's saying that things won't be the same with us anymore. I just wanna be bestfriends with her, it means more to me than anything. I tried comforting her, and cheering her up but she's still upset. What can I do to make everything go back to normal, or at least make her less upset. We're talking again, but it feels as if things aren't the same as before.

SoSoDistinct 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I don't really care.

GarretC 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Act just like you would act as a friend.

McLovin Jul 17 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

It's your fault. You should have known when to far is to far, but you didn't. You took advantage of her feelings.

sykku 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

try begging and let her step on your head

holywolo 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Wait wait. You screwed over your friendship without even being in a relationship with her? That's a new one. o_o

Ghetto 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

McLovin said: "It's your fault. You should have known when to far is to far, but you didn't. You took advantage of her feelings." What the heck, are you talking about? I didn't take anything to far :S, me and her just liked eachother.

kandicandii 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

uh i seriously would give her sometime alone then maybe a few days later maybe just tell her just be the way before i really dont know but im tryin to help

McLovin 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Ghetto said: " What the heck, are you talking about? I didn't take anything to far :S, me and her just liked eachother." Yes you did. How she got jealous when you said other girls names. So you said a whole bunch of girls names. That was taking it to far.

chunkymeat 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Ghetto said: " What the heck, are you talking about? I didn't take anything to far :S, me and her just liked eachother." And you took advantage of her not being able to hear another girl's name when you say it.

Daniel 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Ditch her for me.

kandicandii 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

wow some of you are really harsh when he's suffering right now

azndnangel 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Apologize for teasing her, and go for her. If you decide to ignore it and try to go back to the "best friend" phase, you 2 probably wont be friends anymore. Its better to get with her and then if you 2 break up, you still have chances of being good friends afterwards except if you've been a complete jerk

ManoPriest 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

When a friend that is a girl told me i like you i was like Ok. And then we were friends and she still liked me i didnt really care about it

Ghetto 07/17/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

McLovin said: " Yes you did. How she got jealous when you said other girls names. So you said a whole bunch of girls names. That was taking it to far." She knew I was kidding around with her, and she said that didn't even cause a problem between us since it was a joke..