I'm in love with my bestfriend.

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thread starter Ghetto Jul 16 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I've know her for a long time now, and she's the most amazing girl I've ever met. She's the only person I trust with my entire life, and she always makes me at my happiest. She has the most amazing personality, and she's beautiful. I'd do anything for her, even if it meant taking my life. I even got into a fight with her current boyfriend, over her. He treats her horribly and I can't stand it. The other day we were talking about if we ever liked each other, and she told me that she liked me a lot atm :$. And I admitted the same to her. Now I know that she likes me back. The only problem is that she current has a boyfriend, but what's good is that she doesn't like him as much as she did before and keeps asking me if she should break up with him. Also, she admitted to me, that whenever I mention a girl's name around her, she gets really jealous, and frustrated that it isn't her.

ZekeMVP 07/16/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Sorry, you need NX to get a woman.

RazorNion 07/16/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well is she likes you and you like her... why is she still going out with her boyfriend? Make sure she doesn't pull a: Boyfriend: Hey.. OH MY GOD! Girl: It's not what it looks like! Boyfriend: YOUVE BEEN CHEATING ON ME! AHHHHH etc etc etc

oOCielOo 07/16/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well, it's really up to her what she should do in a situation like that.. and be patient with her of course. The moment she decides to leave him on by her own decision, then you can feel free to pop the question. Until then, all you have to do is wait, and support her. Don't push her to break up with her boyfriend though. You can state your opinion, say that he mistreats her, but what she does about it is really all in her hands. Best of luck to the both of you. :3

MomoMuffin 07/16/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Be a man do the right thing naoz.

Masahige 07/16/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well, you're in a good position anyway They'll break up soon I guess

lolcorrrey 07/16/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I have a bestfriend that I liked too. I've gotten over it a little bit. But, I'm really protective...

Hurons 07/16/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You screw up the relationship say bye bye to your bestfriend

chunkymeat 07/16/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Ya if she's willing to leave her boyfriend for you what's to say she wouldn't do that to you?

Deamon827 07/16/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Hurons said: "You screw up the relationship say bye bye to your bestfriend" This.

GarretC 07/16/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Do you want us to do something about it?

Ghetto Jul 16 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

oOCielOo said: "Well, it's really up to her what she should do in a situation like that.. and be patient with her of course. The moment she decides to leave him on by her own decision, then you can feel free to pop the question. Until then, all you have to do is wait, and support her. Don't push her to break up with her boyfriend though. You can state your opinion, say that he mistreats her, but what she does about it is really all in her hands. Best of luck to the both of you. :3" Thank yoou And I'm not the type to ruin a relationship for selfish needs. Once she breaks up with him, I'm planning to comfort her, and then pop the question a few days after. @ Razor: She's not that type of girl. @ GarretC: If your not gonna say something positive, then please leave. And she's not the type of girl to leave me for another guy. She's cried over me before, and if we date, our friendships to strong to break if we break up.

yoyonite2 07/16/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

From what I understand, you're in love with your best friend, and she likes you yet has a boyfriend. Now she doesn't like you as much and you want something to change? You kinda missed your chance unless she breaks up with her current boyfriend.

redx555 07/16/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Dont do the "PICK ME PICK ME IM BETTER" Attitude. What you should do is support her choices. Let her figure it out, but tell her that you will always be here blah blah blah. Let her solve it with her boyfriend and just comfort her or give her advice and just wait till she makes her decision. Ask her, but dont push the answer out. Give everything time.

oOCielOo 07/16/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Ghetto said: " Thank yoou And I'm not the type to ruin a relationship for selfish needs. Once she breaks up with him, I'm planning to comfort her, and then pop the question a few days after. @ Razor: She's not that type of girl. " That's the perfect way to do it! ^^b Give her space and comfort and then when the time is right, pop the question. At least in your hands she can be safe. You don't sound the abusive type at all. I mean sure, for most friendships to take a big step like that it can feel awkward, but sometimes it works out beautifully. As long as you both acknowledge each other as girlfriend/boyfriend and best friends? Then your relationship, no matter what it may be.. as friends or together, will be healthy and long-lasting.