guys how do i prevent my friends from breaking up

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thread starter konfooshus Jul 07 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

ill give you guys the background story: the girl in this situation is my best friend. The guy in this situation is her boyfriend, also one of my boys. Now they both broke up recently, and they got back together. However while they were broken up, my best friend did some things with 2 different guys, and now shes breaking down from the guilt. She cant tell herboyfriend yet because right now hes on a cruise and shes in florida. I know it was her fault and she never should have done that, but if her boyfriend breaks up with her, she will go in deep state of depression, and maybe kill herself. Her boyfriend will probably revert back to his old bad habits, (drinking, smoking, slacking off in school) because she was the only one who kept him from doing it. He also trusted her alot after they broke up. I told my bestfriend to tell him face to face, because it will allow her boyfriend know that she still cares and that she is sorry, and because as a guy myself, i would like my girlfriend to tell me face to face if she did something severely wrong. I know her boyfriend will probably not forgive her completely on the spot, but i hope he will give it time, and hopefully rebuild his trust with her back. Basil i feel completely pathetic for asking you guys for help, but im so shocked by this, i really dont know who to ask. Every1 i know is away for vacation.

NerdyMapleGeek 07/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Support them it isn't how you feel it's what they think is best.If you are a true friend you will support them no matter what.

ICantKs 07/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Just be there for the both of them. You don't want to barge into their business, but let them both know thet you're there if they need you.

abu210 07/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

She did it while they were broken up so it really shouldn't matter what they did while they weren't together.

Metall Jul 07 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

that sounds almost like me and my gf but im not on a cruise and i dont think she cheated on me... i hope you dont live in illinois

konfooshus 07/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

abu210 said: "She did it while they were broken up so it really shouldn't matter what they did while they weren't together. " thats the thing, her boyfriend still loved her and he wanted to get back out with her, and now that they are, she doesnt know how to approach him about this

ShuraiPu 07/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

They were broken up when she did it? That means it is worth nothing, if the guy is a decent enough lad he will see through it. One of my friends has experienced exactly what has happened, but that was happy endings all round.

Creeper 07/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Lock their wrists together with handcuffs and throw away the key. -hugs konfooshus-

konfooshus 07/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

ShuraiPu said: "They were broken up when she did it? That means it is worth nothing, if the guy is a decent enough lad he will see through it. One of my friends has experienced exactly what has happened, but that was happy endings all round." i hope he does. I even told her, it meant nothing cause u guys were broken up, but she thinks she couldve stopped herself but she didnt.

hlspartan 07/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

thing with 2 guys? you mean threesome? o-o

Vuxrian 07/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Tomm said: "i think she needs to call suicide hotline." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=egEecuxp3s0 lol.

RaveWithMe 07/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

When you say two other guys, do you mean like two other guys at the same time? or separately? But anyways, she should tell him. But depending on how much he loves her, he might dump her.

UsefuLIdiot 07/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Some glue, and a whole lotta love.

XshinboX 07/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

If she broke up with him and got with two other guys and got back, what difference does it make?

konfooshus 07/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

RaveWithMe said: "When you say two other guys, do you mean like two other guys at the same time? or separately? But anyways, she should tell him. But depending on how much he loves her, he might dump her." kinda both. She did them both in the same day, but at different times. i really dont know why she did this.