my girlfriend problems i need your opinion

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thread starter lifeoftom Jul 06 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Alright so i met this girl who was a twin at a party (no it wasn't wild cause we are only freshmen) anyway we hit it off pretty good and we started texting and stuff, however, she goes to a differnet high school and lives like 25 minutes away A few days ago we went to the movies with some friends and her friends were kinda egging me on to ask her out or something but i didn't cause asking someone out under pressure never worked for me in the past. All i did was put my arm around her shoulder and hold her hand so nothing serious so don't get all flaming on me. Anyway i didn't ask her out that day but i knew she liked me and i was planning on asking her out next tiem we hung out. Yesterday i tried to invite her to the fireworks and ask her out when they were going off but she couldn't and today i invited her to the pool tomorow. BUT today she texts me and basically tells me that it wouldn't work out between us becuase we have different friends and life far away. And she isn't "looking for a relationship." so here i am sad as the job market is looking right now. I'm going camping in 2 days for a week and i really don't want to be out there thinking about her all the time. I really liked her and while she was pretty atractive she laughed at the same things i did and we like mostly the same things. My friends say i haven't done anythign wrong she is just being wierd SO BASIL I NEED YOUR HELP

Baboonblack 07/06/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I'd say just move on. Not because she's a "female dog" but probably because she has a boyfriend at her school and she's just too scared to say something, cause she likes you, and she doesnt want complications. :D

COChaos Jul 06 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

>calling people on basilmarket nerds >asking said nerds for relationship advice

tackiwacki16 07/06/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Just tell her you really have feelings for her and you would love to get to know eachother better. If that doesn't work, I don't know what will. You could just ask if you could still hang out or try for another time. But keeping in touch could really help.

funneh 07/06/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

You should be smart and move on...

Optical 07/06/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Don't pressure her. It will only make her push you away.

Cdogg319 Jul 06 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

i ish not computer nerd >:O OT: uhh reason with u o.o OR.. Do the Basil way and stalk her and know all the things she does and likes and do those and when she goes to like a store or something "bump into her" and be all heyy i didnt know you shopped here and shell be like ohh i do :D than to seal the thing sing this to her http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rkqjx6Gsh0U its worked for me o.o EDIT: Wow my grammar scared even me :[

konfooshus 07/06/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

im in the same situation. But the girl i like lives in NewYork city, and i live in Boston, MA.........

MultipleAct2324 07/06/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

its not her fault she doesnt want marriage/kids. She is not a b1tch, you cry like one, and you dont go to basil for love help. Just be normal"friends" with some1, is that not enough?

solbluefire 07/06/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Don't pressure her. You'll just end up with the opposite result you are wishing for. Talk to her about it, and be sincere. Understand her view on the situation and her respect how she feels. Maybe show her why all those cons in being together don't matter because you can make her happy etc.

ulti25 Jul 06 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

What the hell? Why is she a "female dog"? She did the right thing for her, she didn't feel it was going to be right and she didn't lead you on or anything. All you can do is hope she'll change her mind, but besides that just talk to her casually and don't pressure her. Or just move on, it's just a crush. You should probably stay out of it, chances are you aren't mature enough if you need to ask Basil for one of the simplest things in a relationship.

RainDrop 07/06/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Just be friends? :D